u/FrecaMenta

About a month ago an orange male tabby decided to hang out on my porch. He was there every day and all day. I live in a rural area and know everyone around here but nonetheless went out to see if anyone was missing a cat. No one claimed him. I took him to my vet to see if he had a chip; he did not. I had him neutered and chipped and I guess he's mine now. He is a ball of energy. The vet said he is about a year and a half (I thought he was about 6 months old due to his small size). I had always had Cornish Rex cats (the last one floated over the rainbow bridge five years ago). I was not going to get any more cats, but this orange tabby saw different. I named him Ja'Tom and we have become inseparable.🥰

I am Asexual but thought I'd pop over here to say hello.

Just curious if there are anyone over 50 (or under 50 -doesn't matter) who likes to travel on occasion and go on road trips and EAT good food. Drama-free. No sex. Just a lotta fun and laughter. I have a profile on the ace space .love site. Thought I'd check out this space, too. :-)

I’m looking for a lifelong partner (any gender) . . . someone who lights up at the idea of real connection, shared adventures, and laughing so hard we cry (or snort ... no judgment). Would be cool to find someone who loves the open road, cruises (only with Virgin Voyages), fresh air, outdoor festivals, and doesn’t mind a little dirt under the nails or salt in their hair.

You might be a kindred spirit if you are:

-A fellow asexual soul (any gender welcome since no sex is involved) ---cuddles okay😊

-Emotionally grounded and spiritually curious (non-religious, although I do not judge)

-More into inner peace than outer drama

-Passionate about animals, great food, and not taking life too seriously

Think: calm and peaceful conversations next to the bonfire in front of my house, slow walks through my woods or quiet evening walks during a beach trip, spontaneous road trips, cozy evenings with snacks and movies, bumping elbows while making a mess in the kitchen, and someday . . .

...two rocking chairs, one porch, and a view of the lake as we look back on a life well-lived.

I'm a glass-half-full kind of person who genuinely loves life and the people in it.