u/Free_Discipline5108

Married 24 years great wife n mom till recently ...3 kids... put her through school...quit job to take care of kiddos...she makes a ton of money... pays all the bills, food,ins ext...we go half on what she makes....i work now...cheated on me...she's verbally abusive...lies all the time...found out once happened in front of fam...went through her phone... moved out rarely sees the kids or spends time with them... sleeps around a lot... I have receipts... lies to both our families tells them I hit her, force her to do drugs force myself on her rape or almost rape her...denies everything... got CPS called on me because of it...just found out last part... I try to keep it cool still cared about her welcomed here's anytime...

I want a divorce had enough but don't want her to retaliate cause she does... threatened to cut money down take the kids away no contact ext...don't know if we'll still have ins or they will give us less money ... think I have to quit job I still hussle I still bring money in not nearly enough I work graveyard and cps frowns on leaving kids alone only way I can take them to school and work
Or suck it up like always and let things happen ?

She cheated went through her phone had done it before in-front of family... told them and everyone that I hit her forced my self on her rape almost rape they didn't say anything fearing it was true... broke up stay civil for the kids... she sleeps around a lot... I have receipts...
denies everything...
Mother's Day everybody including her fam exposed...
weird enough I was the one backing her up all the time before ...
She's beautiful manipulative claims can convince any one she wants... did I mention she sleeps around ALOT! All she wants to do is work and party left the kids with me moved an hour away not a good mom to the kids hi and bye all the time, so they kinda don't like her much...

I put her through school quit my job to care for the kids

I'll try to make it short...
Wife of 24 years cheated would fight and get angry deflect when asked questions that didn't make sense would go to the bathroom multiple times Tex infront of me and hide her phone... so she got super drunk and I went through it was right fought argued nothing physical... she shais I'm leaving u and I said don't come back we have kids she threatened suicide so we were civil and she kinda wanted to come back me too btw... went through her phone again worst this time still married tried to be civil again she lies has sex with other ppl ... I let her visit kids even stay over ...she's beautiful makesalot of money pays all the bills I work but im the stay at home dad... lives in other city takes the smallest kid 7:30 pm bring him back 5am sleeps an hour goes to work
Found out she tells ppl I hit her I force my self on her rape or almost rape her ...
cheated way before infront of family fam found out keep it from me fearing I would hurt her we don't talk much now takes the my kid drops him off and goes away don't care where she stays the hour before work don't care anymore... but my gut tells today said to me today she's staying with my best friend brother like friend following her today to make sure don't know what to do say if it's true