Caught him cheating with a worker, now he’s running a smear campaign against me on Threads How do you deal with the audacity?
Hi everyone, I just need to vent and get some advice because the gaslighting and audacity are driving me crazy.
A year ago, I caught my ex completely red-handed. He didn't just cheat; I literally caught him paying for a prostitute. It was a clear-cut, disrespectful betrayal, so of course, I ended things. I thought that would be the end of it and we would just go our separate ways.
Instead, he’s spent the last few weeks playing the ultimate victim. He is all over Facebook and Threads posting blind items, subtle shade, and outright lies making it seem like I was the toxic one and that my attitude ruined the relationship. He is actively running a smear campaign to protect his own reputation because he’s terrified people will find out what he actually did.
It is so exhausting watching the person who destroyed your trust act like they deserve a pity party online. I’ve stayed quiet to protect my own peace, but seeing him get sympathy from people who don’t know the truth is starting to test my patience.
How do you handle a cheater who flips the script? Do I continue to ignore his childish posts, or is it time to drop the receipts and let the truth speak for itself?