u/Friendly_Pepper6024

29F4AceSpecM, Austin, TX (open to long-distance too)

I’m loud, a lot of energy, laugh easily, and get way too excited about things, probably not everyone’s cup of tea, but it’s genuinely who I am. Finishing up college right now so my brain’s usually somewhere between exhausted and fascinated.

I’m demisexual, so this is probably an easier conversation here than most places.

What I’m looking for: a real companion for life. Someone I can talk to for hours, who wants connection before anything physical, and who’s building toward something rather than just filling time. I want cuddling, flirting, the whole affectionate side of a relationship, just not centered on physical intimacy.

u/Friendly_Pepper6024 — 11 hours ago

▲ 8 r/demisexuality

Questioning if I’m demisexual. I’m looking for perspective

I’ve been trying to figure out where I fall, and demisexuality is the closest thing I’ve found, but I want to hear from people who relate before I settle on it.

Growing up, I was curious about sex, genuinely curious, not repulsed by the idea. But the couple times I actually experienced it, it felt more like a chore than anything enjoyable or fulfilling. Not painful, not traumatic, just… flat. Something I did rather than wanted.

I’ve never really sought out partners on my own, maybe a couple times, but nothing consistent. I love romance in books and movies, the whole falling-in-love arc, but I’ve never experienced anything like that myself. I’ve never had a crush past middle school, never fallen in love.

What confuses me is I do want physical closeness in other forms, cuddling, flirting, kissing on the cheek. I want to find a partner attractive and have them find me attractive too. It’s specifically sex itself that falls flat, not physical intimacy in general.

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u/Friendly_Pepper6024 — 12 hours ago