u/FriendshipOld4895

Childfree to Vasectomy to considering children

My husband (39) and I (33) have been together for four years. We both were unsure about wanting children when we met. After meeting quickly decided no children. We love to travel, value our marriage, and felt my husband is getting older (he has to retire by 56 but can at 50). He got a vasectomy and we have been paying to freeze sperm just to be safe. After a few years of traveling, buying a beautiful home, and being financially stable, we have found ourselves wondering if this is it? It feels like something is missing and have been thinking about the idea. Since we are continuing to get older, we really want to make sure we have fully thought it through before that time is going to be gone. These last few weeks we have been getting by more excited about the thought. Our plan would be one and done so we can maintain the best we can our love for travel, marriage, sense of identity, etc

Any suggestions with this journey?

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u/FriendshipOld4895 — 5 days ago

Childfree to Vasectomy to considering children

My husband (39) and I (33) have been together for four years. We both were unsure about wanting children when we met. After meeting quickly decided no children. We love to travel, value our marriage, and felt my husband is getting older (he has to retire by 56 but can at 50). He got a vasectomy and we have been paying to freeze sperm just to be safe. After a few years of traveling, buying a beautiful home, and being financially stable, we have found ourselves wondering if this is it? It feels like something is missing and have been thinking about the idea. Since we are continuing to get older, we really want to make sure we have fully thought it through before that time is going to be gone. These last few weeks we have been getting by more excited about the thought. Our plan would be one and done so we can maintain the best we can our love for travel, marriage, sense of identity, etc

Any suggestions with this journey?

reddit.com
u/FriendshipOld4895 — 5 days ago