AITAH for telling my mom that im tried of being mentally abused and the punching bag of her hurt? Me F13 mom F43 brother M16
My brother 16M attempted last summer since then me 13F and my other family members world, plans, activities, etc have been planed and cancelled around him. for the first 3-5 month after it was fine we wanted too and felt the need to at month 6 we lighted up a bit and the house returned to normal.
2 weeks later we suspected he was still having thoughts due to several events. so my sister and mom went through his phone while I went through his room and we both found evidence of other attempts after that we sent him to school in a mental health hospital *school not to stay in the hospital* and after that me and my family have been watching him non stop. (a bit of context me and my brother have rooms right next to each other) so I watched him while my mom and sister do things.
So fast foward to about 2-4 weeks ago me and my mom get in a fight for his knows what and when I stop responding to her she threatens to ground me and “beat me up“ and “you know what happened last time” then calls me a narcissistic manipulator and horrible person and I had to say sorry for being a teenager with a “attitude“ and before and since then anytime i do something she deems “attitude“ I get called a gasllighter and “that type of miserable person“. Now today we get into a fight and she says her usual things and instead of just taking it in I snap back and say “just because you can’t yell at my brother or ground my sister because shes grown does not mean I’m your designated punching Bag to take yours anger out on“.the ironic thing she started this fight because i didn’t come downstairs when she called. So what do you think AITAH.