r/LetMeHelpYouOut

Hi i’m a 21 year old male in a crisis, im sorry if this is confusing this is like my second reddit post but ive dug myself a hole, i moved across the country to live/be with my gf at the time which was a 4 year relationship but ever since i got here it’s like a flip switched i couldn’t keep a stable job since i got fucked over by a company that decreased my hourly rate by $10 an hour the first day i got there then fired me not long after since he found out i was applying for other jobs, anyway me and my gf broke up and i don’t feel welcome in this house since her parents live here too, im just in a tough spot i dont have a job and i want to move back in with my parents that back across the country. i have about $35 to my name, and i have bills to pay i do have a car that i am trying to sell but it is not roadworthy so nobody will touch it. Especially since its a european car in a place where people only drive 4x4’s. It’s been the hardest year of my life and just feel lost like theres no way out. i’m just looking for advice/help. i just want to get back to the other side of the country to live with my family again. also i live in australia

Thank you for reading and any advice or help is appreciated

Ok, so for years now, every time I have picked up my child from school school (which is weekly,) I have put the reason being something completely outrageous and off the wall that I can blame the front desk lady for. The entire school and administration knows and approves of this and it has become something amazing. I am unfortunately running out of ideas though and am coming to you fine people for help!!!

It's an elementary school and her name is literally Karen so I know there will be some good ones!

Thank you all in advance!

ETA: the front desk lady is Karen.

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Paypal only. You cannot have a hidden profile. Let me know how it could help you. I know it’s not a lot but i’m sure someone needs it more than me.

Need help from someone to see if my acc is still flagged! Thx!

A while ago someone chargebacked money sent to me and then it started warning ppl before sending money to me. Just wondering if this still shows up on my account to a new person who I don’t have transaction history with. It’s been months and have had no chargebacks & use the account fairly often

If anyone could type in my and go through the first step of sending something to see if a warning still pops up would be greatly appreciated

My tag(not asking for money): $xbiesj

I am currently at the veterinary hospital for my 3 year old dog, Bucky. Feeling emotional, wondering how im gonna get him home comfortably. My pay is on Friday.

Early this morning, before our walk. He collided into our pantry and suffered a cut on his right, front leg. At this very moment, he is getting X-Rays done. He has been super cooperative!

Can provide the bill to the donor. Your help would be treasured! Also, I am thankful to my neighbour for sending us in a Uber!

Ill leave a photo of Bucky in the comments. He is super loved, and cherished!

(Location: Winnipeg, MB, CAN)

Hi everyone. I’m currently a first-year college student from the Philippines, and I’m still living in our family home. Just for context, moving out at a young age isn’t really common in our culture, especially when you come from a family that doesn’t have much money.

I’ll get straight to the point. I need financial help, not only because I’m struggling with the costs of college, but mainly because of the environment I’m living in right now.

I live with my mom, my two siblings, my uncle, and my grandmother. There are three of us siblings in total, including me. My mom has been raising us on her own for years.

The problem is that both of my siblings and my uncle are involved with crystal meth and gambling. They’re all adults, but they still depend heavily on my mom financially.

They ask my mom for money almost every day, and a lot of it ends up being used for gambling or drugs. One of my siblings already has a family of their own but still relies on my mom. They don't have a job and, honestly, don't seem to want one. My other sibling also doesn't really contribute to the household. My uncle does have a job, but most of what he earns goes to gambling and drugs.

We are not a rich family at all. We are struggling financially, and because of all of this, my mom's debts keep piling up. It hurts watching her work so hard while the people around her keep taking advantage of her.

The environment at home is also becoming unbearable for me. They can be aggressive, loud, and unpredictable. I can barely sleep because of the noise and everything that happens at night. We don't have separate rooms either, so we all sleep in the same small house with very little privacy.

I've already reported some of the things happening in our home, but unfortunately, I haven't been able to get the kind of help we need.

I know some people might ask, "Why don't you just move out?"

I want to. That's actually one of the main reasons I'm making this post.

I just can't afford it.

I've also considered getting a part-time job while studying, but my current college schedule doesn't really allow me to work as a working student. My classes and school responsibilities take up most of my time, and I don't want to risk failing or dropping out just because I'm trying to earn enough money to survive. I'm still trying to find ways to earn online or work around my schedule, but so far I haven't found something stable.

I don't have enough money for rent, food, transportation, school expenses, and everything else that comes with living on your own. If I had the means to leave safely and continue studying somewhere peaceful, I would do it.

I've honestly spent a lot of time thinking about my future, and I don't want to continue this cycle. My family has struggled financially for generations, and I want to be the one who finally breaks that cycle. I don't want anything extravagant. I just want a peaceful and quiet place where I can study, sleep properly, and build a better life.

Despite everything, I did my best in school. I graduated as the class valedictorian and with highest honors in 2026, and I'm now a first-year college student. I'm trying really hard to continue my education because I believe it's one of my best chances of changing my situation.

I'm not expecting anyone to solve my problems for me. If anyone can provide any kind of assistance, whether it's advice, information about scholarships or student support, help finding legitimate online work that I can do around my school schedule, or even a small amount that could help me save toward moving out, I would genuinely appreciate it.

I know there are probably many people who are also struggling, so I understand if you can't help financially. Even advice or pointing me toward resources that could help a college student would mean a lot to me.

I'm sorry if this post is messy. There's a lot going on, and I don't really know where else to ask.

Thank you to anyone who took the time to read this.

I can provide details for verification

After looking through a lot of comments and seeing how interactions are going there has been some small changes made which will hopefully help the community run more smoothly and safely for all.

On donations, if you are using a wishlist it must be Amazon unless otherwise discussed in modmail with the mods and approved. This will help keep our donors’ information best protected and give those making the request the best chance at having their needs met.

Fundraising sites are going to be left to up to the mods to decide if they feel it is a secure one or not. Ones such as GoFundMe will be allowed others will be decided case by case.

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Thank you for the support and helping make this community such a wonderful place for all.

Hi

I'm currently a year homeless, I'm 34 male in Poland.

Can anyone please help me get room for tonight and some please?

Around 30-35$?

Through paypal?

Thank you in advance.

Hi, I'm on here asking for help. Let me explain the situation to give some insight on the issue. Quick disclaimer; therapy, speaking to a medical professional, and breaking up or taking a break from each other isn't on the table. With that out of the way, let me begin.

My girlfriend has an addictive personality. One of her main addictions before it stopped was character ai.

I recently found out about this. When I found out, one thing led to another and eventually my mind made the connection to threesomes.

Ever since I had this idea, it had developed into a kink, fetishe, fantasy or whatever. I spoke to her about it. At first she was open to it, before we actually dived deeper. The first conversation ended with her sobbing into my arms about not wanting to have a 2f, 1m threesome.

The next day, we talked more. I didn't realise she was upset about it until it was too late.

We tried simulating what it would be like in a 2m 1f threesome. She had faked her orgasms, and I didn't have a very good one. But a part of me still liked it. She, however, felt sick and disgusted.

Que another hard conversation which also ended in tears.

I feel deeply ashamed and saddened with myself for hurting her, as I really value her and I love her deeply.

Yet I cannot seem to shake this desire. Hence, I need help. How do I get rid of this for the sake of myself and my relationship?

I've been helped on reddit recently so I don't want to ask for a handout, but rather suggestions. Wondering if anyone knows one of those cash advance apps that works? I've tried all the popular ones like Dave/cleo/Albert/briggit etc. most wont connect to my bank.

Does anyone know of maybe a lesser know cash advance app or have any other ideas? I just need to get some food for the week for me and my mom until I get paid.

Id rather not ask for help on reddit again directly so if anyone has suggestions I'd appreciate it.

I’m a product design student currently working on a medical device project focused on children, and I’m finding it surprisingly difficult to access reliable information from doctors and nurses.

I understand that hospitals have strict policies around patient privacy and medical data, but even getting general professional insights through interviews or conversations has been challenging. Some hospitals are very hesitant to share any information, which makes it difficult to understand the real-world problems and workflows that healthcare professionals deal with.

As a design student, I’m not looking for private patient data or anything confidential. I mainly want professional insights, experiences, common challenges, and feedback that can help me design a safer and more practical device.

If anyone here is a doctor, nurse, medical student, healthcare researcher, medical device designer, or has experience working with hospitals, I’d really appreciate some advice on:

• How can design students ethically access healthcare-related research and insights?
• Are there communities, forums, organisations, or platforms where I can connect with healthcare professionals?
• What is the best way to approach doctors or hospitals for research interviews?
• Are there any publicly available databases, research papers, or resources you would recommend?

I’d really appreciate any suggestions, personal experiences, or communities you can point me toward. I’m just trying to make sure the design is based on real healthcare needs rather than assumptions.

PLEASE IF YOUR A PEDIATRICIAN OR NURSE OR ANYHOW WORK IN MEDICAL FILED WITH KIDS PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DM ME OR REPLY TO THIS POST I REALLY NEED DATA.🥲

Thanks in advance!

Im very hungry im right here at a wendys and im willing to send pictures of food after i get it

Im so hungry please anyone