I need help for moving out, male, 33 years old
Hi, I'm 33 years old, I live with my mom, I have my challenges like I have Auditary proccessing disorder. I have fears, tons of them.
I need advices cause I"d like to be in my own appartment, but I'm scared of if I could make it.
I don't have a job. I'm very sick so I have social welfare. I just want to build my future, I just don't know where to start.
I've been living like this for a very long time. And I don't think at 33 years old. A man should still live with his mother.
But I do it because I don't have enough money to move out. But now it's really starting to make me realize I need to live with either a friend, a boyfriend or by myself
And not with a mother. Mothers are weird, they don't understand fully their children. When I talk with friends I feel so free. So not judged.
But when I talk to my mom about anything, there's always this feeling of suffocating. I can't explain. But I feel like I can't be myself without getting judged.
Anyway, I don't see myself living with her for the rest of my life.
The anxiety keeps growing because I'm nowhere near my goal.
I'm trying to find solutions, but appartements are so pricy. I can't live on my own and pay for electricity bills, my rent, the internet, my phone etc. I don't even have a car, I couldn't with my money income.
It's literaly impossible. I feel stuck and I hate it.
People sometimes move out when they are 18 years old, thats crazy, I wish I could have been able to do that. Although 23 years old would have been more mature for me. At 18 years old, I would have been too young imo. I had a severe depression back then so...
How did you move out from your parents house and survive? Little by little.