▲ 9 r/BPDlovedones
Epitome of stupidity
When I think about it, I eventually come to the conclusion that it is the epitome of stupidity.... To be so terrified of being abandoned of your SO that you abuse them.
Anyone else?
u/Fun-Entry-8647 — 6 days ago
▲ 16 r/BPDlovedones
It was never love. It was an illusion.
https://anniewright.com/bpd-idealization-phase-why-beginning-felt-perfect/
This article explains the idealisation phase and how a healthy, adult relationship is impossible. In this particular article, the emphasis is on driven, independent women attracting BPD men whom they see as a saviour. The same applies if the genders are reversed.
I found this article eerie tbh. It's like the woman who wrote this had watched my entire relationship unfold with exBPD. The way he would call me his "world", "ark", "lighthouse", "goddess" and switch to "whore", "cunt", "narcissist", etc. They are not looking for a partner, they are looking for a a saviour, a fixer, a caregiver..... to blot out their emptiness.
u/Fun-Entry-8647 — 2 months ago