Social 2. Lack of gratitude for someone's support system, insistence on staying melancholic or being a victim, and I hate being personally taken for granted. Whats your type and what are your top three pet peeves.
I'll start. One of my biggest hot takes is while us 2s are usually the assertive ones in a relationship, we can fall into unhealthy mousey behavior when we feel robbed of our autonomy. This is where the passive caretaker myth comes in. When we lose the one up position in relationships we care about whether it be a loved one or a spat with an authority figure, if we don't have the power to move to 8, our move to an unhealthy 4 takes place. What is your enneagram hot take?