my hair wont grow back after getting layers (butterfly cut)
does anyone else regret that one haircut that not to be dramatic, completely shattered their confidence and i dont wanna speak into existence--but hair? what should i do?
guys layers genuinely ruined my hair, its been 6 months since i got my haircut, and i dont see a visible difference in any length or blending together. if anything i feel like it just looks more awkward. i have this rat tail, and my hair was hip length now who knows, just layers everywhere and it touches my waist (and thats the longest part). she completely messed it up, i wanted the longest section to be most of my hair, but the longest section is approximately one third of it. two thirds (meant to be face framing pieces and maybe some extra strands) are drastically shorter. theyre past my chest but look significantly shorter than the longest piece. it all just looks damaged, and like a rat tail. im acc grieving ik its not that deep, but i also have iron deficiency and traction alopecia, so my length overcompensated before the cut. now its thin and volumeless, plus this cut. my hair was my best quality now its sooo mid i cant believe how one haircut did this. i loved my hair my entire life, and it was such a part of my confidence, my most complimented feature:( i knew that even tho i had other insecurities i could rely on my hair. nope. not anymore. im so upset and angry. like no offence she had one job. ughhh. it just looks so awkward. went from flowy to awkward. btw like i said my hairs thin and also dryyyy so in combination with it all im just so upset and i never got used to it i just become more sad. esp when i wanna wear a specfic dress or get glammed up i think abt my old hair and how much better it is.