
Lost engagement ring
Hey, just trying my luck out here. Has anybody seen this ring? Lost my engagement ring about a few months ago. Filed a police report but nothing came out of it. I’m 80% sure it was outside Donatello’s in Tampa.

Hey, just trying my luck out here. Has anybody seen this ring? Lost my engagement ring about a few months ago. Filed a police report but nothing came out of it. I’m 80% sure it was outside Donatello’s in Tampa.
I was dragging hose through sand to spray some bleach on the spots around the pool and by mistake dropped the hose in water. Do I have to shock the water or it’s okay?
I work part time(hardly once a week) not because I don’t want to but because my little one is just 2 years old my husband is a physician and last year he made around 600k out of which 200k went into taxes and we bought our first house and put all of it in the house because we don’t like to deal with interest. We borrowed some money(100k) from my son’s education account(he’s 6) but I feel extremely guilty about it and want to return it as soon as possible but my husband makes such bad financial decisions. He spends 10k on his hair system. He doesn’t care about money he just spends it without thinking about it. He is always on his phone when driving and we’ve fought about it so many times. He drives so bad that we had to change tires on his car atleast 4 to 5 times in past 2 years. He doesnt maintain his car. Yesterday, he drove off road again and hit something and now we are changing 3 tires again and the rim of one of the tire too. Last time when I went out of town he went on a shopping spree and got a coat for 2-3k even I don’t own a dress that expensive and he still hasn’t picked up that coat and that was in December 2025 and he got shoes worth 500 and I haven’t seen them to this day. Now you might be like why am I being so stingy about it? The thing is he’s going into fellowship this July because other people thought he will become a great fellow. I know in my heart that he didn’t wanted to but is doing because everybody else wants too. He is an extreme people pleaser. fellowship comes with a huge pay cut. We will be back to 70k and I’m just stressed how we’re gonna handle everything. My sisters think I’m wrong for not letting him spend his money but I’m working my ass off to save money on every little thing and he’s spending like it’s no big deal. At this point we don’t have a single dollar in our savings. We’re just relying on the money that we borrowed from my son’s account. Am I being too much? I’m sorry I just wanted to vent bad