u/FunUnique4517

26 [M4M] anyone who’s also DL?

Looking to for long term buddies/relationship/loyal FUBU with somebody who’s also DL (down low, discreet , not out, masculine, whatever you call it).

Just seems cool to talk to somebody about things you can’t normally talk about with your circle.

About me:
-DL
-5’10
-fit
-working professional
-does modeling as a side hustle

About you (strict preferences):
-DL
-fit
-great personality
-whom I can hook up every now and then

Let’s trade IG handles. Cheers!

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u/FunUnique4517 — 1 day ago
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Did I do something wrong?

So I have this FUBU that I see every now and then. We only talk if we want to fool around. Now fast forward to our most recent meetup, I asked if I could F him kasi I was horny. Come that day I met him at his place late at night since I did overtime at work and celebrated with friends with drinks.

Ngayon nung pag punta ko sa place niya I was already drunk and tired. I hesitated to go but since it was me who wanted to do it and I already committed I pushed through pa din. Now here’s the worst part: I was having a hard time getting a hard on kasi I was really tired and drunk talaga. I just wanted to sleep at his place but I still managed to “please” him in other means but I wasn’t able to do penetration. Pagod talaga and I was sorry about it. I made sure na bumawi in other ways kahit ako na lang gumagalaw.

I wanted to fuck him but I couldn’t because when I’m really drunk and tired I have a hard time getting a hard on. After that meetup when I got home the next morning he ghosted me.

Nag sorry naman ako at nag explain but he just ghosted. No explanation. Aminado naman ako pero I just can’t believe na may ganun palang tao.

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u/FunUnique4517 — 3 days ago

26 [M4M] anyone who is also DL?

About me:
-Fit
-Very discreet, no trace, manly
-5’10
-attractiveness is subjective but I do print and commercial ads so that should be a hint

Looking for (strict preferences, I’m sorry):
-DL, also manly and no trace
-attractive
-someone who’s emotionally capable
-sensible to talk to

Let’s trade pics on IG. Cheers!

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u/FunUnique4517 — 5 days ago

26 [M4M] please don’t attack me for this but… anyone else here conventionally attractive?

Please respect my post. I might get a lot of comments on this one but I’m just trying my luck here. I’m DL, masc, very discreet/not out, 5’10, and I would say my side hustle is working in commercials and print ads so it’s a hint for what I look like. I’m pretty much emotionally available, I talk and I don’t ghost.

Is anyone here also the same? I would prefer dating somebody who’s also DL and masc. Nothing against effeminates, I love you guys. We can be friends if you want.

But in terms of dating I would love to meet somebody of the same criteria. Let’s exchange IG handles.

Cheers!

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u/FunUnique4517 — 7 days ago
▲ 36 r/phlgbt

I don’t think hookups are for me. I get too attached.

Before I start anything, here’s my background:
Fit, very discreet, DL, commercially attractive. I never do dates or gotten myself into a relationship with a guy. I keep it very low because of my job.

I have this FUBU I meet every now and then if I feel like fooling around. Here’s the thing, once I find somebody to hook up with I don’t see anybody else. I don’t swing like that. Once I still entertain you after the first hookup that means vibes were great I fuck with you and I will stay loyal to you (as a FUBU).

Now we are both aware that we’re in it only for sex and nothing else but as time goes by and many more meetups past I get attached for some reason. We don’t even talk regularly. We don’t treat each other special. We only message each other literally only for sex. He’s not even interesting to talk to say the least since every time we do it, he doesn’t talk and move around much (I’m a top/giver). He’s not even emotionally capable of talking at a deeper sense. So there is absolutely no reason for me to be romantically involved with this guy. He’s physically cute and that’s it.

But for some reason I got emotionally attached to him. I know he doesn’t feel the same way and just wanna fuck but why? I got attached for the first time. Can somebody tell me why?

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u/FunUnique4517 — 8 days ago

26 [M4M] looking for sensible long term friends and/or dates

I’m very discreet, fit, no trace. 5’10. I don’t want to claim I’m a good catch but I’ve been in several print and commercial ads, so chances are you might recognize me if you see me in person.

Here’s the thing. I’ve never considered dating somebody of the same sex since I’m pretty much DL and only fool around when I’m horny. Long story short, I fooled around this one time and caught feelings. That’s when I realized I have the capacity to fall in love with another man.

I just want to explore of dating side of this on the low and give it a shot.

If you’re somebody who’s emotionally capable and well, also attractive (gotta be honest) then hit me up. I’ll give my instagram handle.

Cheers!

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u/FunUnique4517 — 8 days ago