u/Fun_Business3675

Can I be effective as a lawyer?

I’m 27 years old and trying to figure out what’s next for me. I really want to do something that will make a difference and help people, and ideally I’d like to be compensated well for it. I wanted to ask on here if from your perspectives as law professionals, do you think that I’d fit in? I am worried that I may be too sensitive or soft for it but I also think my sensitivity might make me an excellent lawyer. I’m worried about spending a ton of money on school and not being able to even make it through class.

Why I think I would be a good lawyer:
- I value justice & would like to take part in upholding the law
- I can argue well
- I am a kind person
- I have a bachelor’s degree in history & like to read and continually learn
- I can be apathetic to other people’s hardships sometimes. Can also be compassionate but I am more logical than emotional
- I am hardworking and want to succeed and make money
- I will oftentimes not want to give up in fighting when I think(know) I’m right
- I am a night owl
- I have 6 yrs of experience working in special ed & also at bars! Which is a lot of difficult interactions & quick thinking. But not high-level intellectual arguing

Why I think law might not be for me:
- I have a past history of domestic violence and am afraid I will be triggered by aggressive arguing and get emotional (which for me is crying, losing my words)
- I can be soft spoken when I’m not confident in what or why I’m contributing to the conversation
- I can be sensitive to harsh feedback from superiors, in that I will feel anxious or that they don’t like me. I’m working on this in my current position.
- I can be a bit of a slacker. But I think pressure helps me create my best work….
- I am a recovering pushover and sometimes struggle to push for my side of the story if another person on my side is very adamant.

What do you think? Thanks in advance.

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u/Fun_Business3675 — 4 days ago

RIP my inbox probably

I’m from the area but moved away and found a “rope collective” where I was, where Shibari lessons were taught and practiced in a private space. I’m wondering if there’s anything like that in the monterey Bay Area that I don’t know of?

Not necessarily looking for a sex club but more a community that’s kink positive or one that practices bondage or budoir. Thanks

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u/Fun_Business3675 — 17 days ago

If you have, why did you do it?

I’m curious if therapists ever meet patients that get on their nerves and cancel services after a certain point. Or if one or the other begins to blur the boundaries or something. Just curious.

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u/Fun_Business3675 — 22 days ago