Waiting until birth to find out gender
TW: MC
What are y'alls thoughts on this?
I'm almost 17 weeks with my 5th baby, 8th pregnancy. I didn't do the blood test this time around, and my 20 week scan is scheduled for next month.
I have always wanted to find out as soon as possible, with my third I just knew right away she was a girl and had her name picked out at 6 weeks. but this will be my last baby and I'm thinking I'll just wait.
After three miscarriages in the past year-ish, I'm keeping my hopes and expectations low. The first miscarriage was at 16 weeks in March last year, and I had found out she was a girl at 10 weeks. Never picked out a name and the miscarriage destroyed me mentally.
So, idk. Have y'all waited? Was it a fun surprise?