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Successful VBAC 20 months after planned C-section

Got my VBAC! The positive stories in this group really helped me go into everything with a peace of mind so wanted to share mine as well.

My first baby was a planned c section due to breech, so my body had never labored before so it was unknown how I would do. Deliveries just under 21 months apart. My due date was August 3rd, got a membrane sweep that day since I was just a cm dilated, and got acupuncture shortly after the sweep. I think I lost my mucus plug throughout that day and next. It had been so hot where I live I had to stop taking my daily walks which was not ideal, but the temp went way down that Tuesday the 4th, so I got out and walked, took my toddler to the park, and felt like I was finally able to get out some pent up anxiety. I did my evening stretches, miles circuit, and took a unisom before bed since I’d been sleeping so badly.

Woke up at 6:30 morning of the 5th (40+2) and knew by 8 I was having real contractions. I probably had some throughout the night too but was able to sleep through them. They were close enough together that my doula told me I could head to hospital and I got there at 10:30. I was worried they were going to send me home to labor more since it felt like it was all moving so quickly but they admitted me at 4cm dilated. Contractions were getting really intense and I got an epidural just before 1pm, water broke while getting the epidural, and was about 6cm at this time. I’m so thankful I got the epidural as it calmed me down & made me able to be more present. Around 4 I had told the nurses I was feeling a lot of pressure in my vagina during contractions but they didn’t check dilation and said to let them know when the pressure was constant and not just during a contraction. While they were changing my position the nurse noticed babies head and was like oh wow let me go get your doctor because it’s time to push! So I pushed for about 23 mins, could feel the contractions and pressure to push effectively just fine despite the epidural, and baby girl was here by 5:15! It felt kind of surreal with how quickly it all progressed and I was in awe of my own body for doing exactly what it needed so well for me. I went into this all expecting it would be a long labor since it would be technically like a first child for me. Had a just under 2nd degree tear since her head was kind of big. She weighed 7lb 6oz, is perfectly healthy, and I’m recovering well and soaking it all in.

Things I did to prepare- chiropractor, pelvic floor pt about 5 times prior, some prenatal yoga, acupuncture, some perineal massages, dates, red raspberry tea, some pumping, yoga ball, evening stretches/miles circuit at the end. I do think I was starting to over stress at the end about not going into labor spontaneously, and the day before just making an effort to mentally decompress, take some walks, and stop overthinking it helped me finally do it. I’m sure the membrane sweep and acupuncture helped it along too.

You can have the redemptive and smooth VBAC of your dreams like me! Wishing you all the best of luck!

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u/Funny_Ask_4128 — 12 days ago
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Losing steam 40 weeks

I’m due tomorrow & feel like I’m completely burnt out trying to do all the right things to prepare for a successful labor. I have a 20 month old toddler, it’s been 100 degrees for weeks now, & I’m starting to feel defeated. I stopped taking daily walks cuz of the heat, have been eating dates, raspberry leaf tea, chiropractor, acupuncture, pelvic floor PT, prenatal yoga, yoga ball, stretches every night, perineal massages, just started pumping & doing miles circuit, you name it. I feel over inundated with all the things I should be doing & I’m at a breaking point mentally and physically.
Going to doctor tomorrow to see if I’m able to try membrane sweep, wasn’t dilated at all at my last appt so wasn’t able to. I’m trying to stay positive since I’m just 40 weeks tomorrow but given my body isn’t showing any signs of labor I’m starting to feel defeated that this is going to end in having to decide between induction or c section. Pitocin really freaks me out for all the obvious reasons. My first c section was planned due to breech & I never labored so this baby will technically be like a first baby for my body.

I guess I’m just wondering if anyone had any similar burnout and still able to have their VBAC without intervention? Feels like my body is doing nothing right now. This is probably more a mental hurdle than anything at this point so any encouragement is welcome.

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u/Funny_Ask_4128 — 18 days ago
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Second guessing size of my upgrade set, should I get 2 carat instead of 2.5?

My husband & I got married during Covid, & I didn’t get to pick out my wedding band in a store & ordered it online. I think it worked out well & didn’t look bad per se but wasn’t my dream set. For our anniversary this year my husband said I could upgrade my rings. I wear more gold jewelry so liked the idea of adding gold since my previous set was white gold, and getting a bigger diamond since my previous was a .8. We went to the store last week since they have a trade in program & I picked a set that felt it kept the same style as my previous set with the contour band (which was super unique when I got it but I’m seeing them more frequently now, which is fine!). In store, the 2.5 carat didn’t seem that much bigger than the 2, and I felt it added the glam I was missing with my .8. Just picked it up this week and while I love the look of the set, after reading these threads about proportion to hand size & people saying big diamonds can look tacky, I’m genuinely wondering if I should go smaller since I still have time to exchange my diamond out. You won’t hurt my feelings! My ring size is 5.5 for reference. I don’t work a job working with my hands and take off my rings if I need to do more manual work, dishes, etc. Pics are of my new set , e-ring alone, my previous set, and a side by side of new set and old. Thanks!

Edit: thanks for the feedback everyone. I think it may be worth trying a fake smaller ring with it to see if I like how that looks better before committing to exchanging it. I do like the curved band style and think it’s more me, so I’ll probably keep the band as is. I know all of this is subjective & it won’t be everyone’s taste but was just curious of first impressions.

u/Funny_Ask_4128 — 2 months ago