2022 Eco 1500, happened to poke my head under for a different reason and noticed this leak. Only 85k on the clock.
I'm assuming this is the oil feed line? Any one have experience with replacing this or though i try the crush washers first?
My girl and I have been together for about 4 years now, living together for about the last year.
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During this time she hasn't been able to really keep a job so ive been helping her pay for things, giving her most of my extra money for the miscellaneous things of mine Ive sold off, even before we moved in together. She struggles a lot mentally, which I try to be supportive of but its almost an every day issue at this point.
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Since we've been together, I havent been allowed to do really anything for me. Ive lost all enjoyment of everything i would typically do because she has to do it with me on her terms.. I cant do anything alone, if I do she has to be on the phone with me most of the time, its like Im just a possession of hers, not a partner. If i want to go fishing, it has to be with her. I cant go to the gym because "I ignore her for hours so I can talk to girls at gym." I can't visit family without being harassed everything 30 minutes asking what Im doing, where I am, when Im leaving, etc. She stares at my location and literally calls me if i stop somewhere and didnt tell her ahead of time. She times how long it takes me to get places, how long im there and how long it takes me to get home.
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Everytime I try to do something for me, ie get a haircut, she tells me she wishes she could spend money on a haircut whenever she needs one and make me feel like a fucking asshole for getting one. She rephrases that for everything I want to do, from a haircut, changing the oil in my car, fixing anything of mine, etc.
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Keep in mind, she doesnt pay rent, car insurance, utilities. I do, and live check to check to do so. So the seldom times I have extra money, I either have to hide it or spend it on her.
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No matter what I do, it gets questioned. Why did you stay 15 minutes late? Why are you still at work? Why didnt you answer the first time I called? Why are you taking this street home amd no this other one? Why did it take so long to answer the phone? Why do you need to go to the store?
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At this point, on my days off I just sit at home basically staring at the wall waiting for her to tell me what were allowed to do next. She asks what I want to do, but its always met with resistance or we start with something I want for maybe an hour then it turns into her show. Ive completely stopped giving input to what I want to do because of it, I know it makes her more angry but theres no point since we dont do what i want to anyway.
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Our lease is up soon and Im not signing another, but I also dont want to abandon her. Im afraid if I do shes going to go off the deep end. I know she cant afford live on her own, has no family or friends. I've tried talking to her about how I feel but she just gets angry and throws temper tantrums as if everything is my fault.
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I love her but I don't think Im still in love with her.
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Am I an asshole for wanting to leave?
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