u/Gabe2001

For the longest time, I put off hrt thinking I was just transfem nonbinary. But now, I realize I am fully a woman and I pushed myself to start hrt and now im happier than ive ever been!

Just wanted to spread the good news 😊

Long story short, I recently have been exploring my gender identity. Thought I was nonbinary, but continued to explore my femininity. Recently, I added she/hers to my pronouns. But I realized I was still sticking to the androgynous style to be able to stay with my then partner whose straight and has no attraction to women. She gently asked me if I thought I was a woman. I couldn't answer no, cuz I'd be lying. But I knew saying yes would mean the end of our relationship.

I said yes.

I've been coming to terms with it over the past day. We both decided we still love each other and don't want to be a apart. We're moving towards being platonic best friends now.

It's just crazy how one answer can change a whole future. We were moving into a new house together with my sister (still are) and planning a wedding (not anymore). It's weird, but normal. Sad, but happy.