u/Gagsto

Hello, I have a girlfriend and we’ve been together for almost 5 years. We are about 12 km apart from each other. Long story short, we’ve been arguing these past few days because she often gets hungry, and I can’t always provide food for her since we are both still students and don’t have enough money. We’re also not allowed to see each other in person, so I don’t really have a way to help her physically. I want to buy her food and take care of her, but I don’t have the financial capability right now.

Every time this happens, she goes on Litmatch and starts talking to other guys, which makes me feel confused, jealous, and hurt. I don’t know what to do anymore or if I am the problem in our relationship.

TL;DR:

[M18] in a 5-year long-distance relationship with my [F18] girlfriend. We've recently arguing about the food that I can’t afford to buy, and when we fight she talks to other guys on Litmatch. I’m confused about what I should do and if I’m the problem.