AIO? I just want an update and she hasn’t responded in over a year.
So little background, Simba was my cat for 5 years since he was a baby but we couldn’t keep him. I loved him so much and giving him up was the hardest thing I had to do. I gave him to this really nice lady who is around my age about a year and 3 months ago, but I haven’t received any sort of update or photo in a year and a month. I feel like I’ve spaced these texts out enough to where it’s not super annoying. I get that he’s her cat now and I respect that, but I have no idea what happened I feel like I’ve been really nice but it scares me that she doesn’t respond anymore. My anxiety just tells me that she put him down or something and I just need to know.
EDIT: She told me she would give me updates. She even said “Feel free to visit him anytime!” When I dropped him off. I don’t know if she was just trying to be nice, but yes, the understanding was that I would get updates.
EDIT 2: No, this woman is not my ex. She is someone I found to take care of him and MY HUSBAND and I vetted her beforehand, but those of you saying I’m doing this because I’m desperate to get back with my ex need to chill.