u/Gay-Bowser-25

Hi! First of all, yeah there's next to nothing on me account, I'm a lurker more than anything bcs I try to keep me digital footprint relatively clean outside of when talking to close friends and partners :p.

Anyway, I'm 19 and a proud trans woman from England (yes, I hate it here) and me sexuality is... complicated? I've loved women since birth but omgs the past week and a bit has been a rollercoaster for me sexuality. Used to think I hate penises and the like, now I don't think that :p. What I *can* say for certain though is that I'm poly (me 2 wonderful partners, one who I'm dating, can attest to that) and I'm some flavour of lesbian.

In other words, if you're a man and you message, looking for NSFW stuff, it ain't happening. Pack it up and leave. I'm happy to be friends with men but dating and/or sex is not happening.

Specific about me stuff before what I'm looking for:

I'm about 175 cm (I think?), long brown hair that's frizzed to shit, brown eyes, and I just recently got braces fitted after several years of paperwork going missing (thanks private healthcare🙄) so I look like a mess x).

As far as hobbies go, well, I LOVE LOVE LOVE the Malazan books, all of them (ok well Esslemont's additions are hit and mess, BLOOD AND BONE FUCKING SUCKS), as well as reading a looooot of history and political theory. I'm a Trotskyist Communist and am currently working on a long arse project to tell the entire history of the U.S.S.R. and other Socialist projects globally (yes I'm ambitious); I'm a big Death Metal fan (Cattle Decapitation, Digested Flesh, The Black Dahlia Murder, Beyond Creation and Nile are awesome), though I do love other forms of music too :D, Little Simz forever holds me heart. Other than those I do play games when I get the chance, mostly Soulsborne ones (WHY IS THE OLD HUNTERS DLC SO HARD ALREADY) and I'm an aspiring archaeologist and anthropologist, currently studying both at university and going on a dig in late June :3.

Ok as for what I'm looking for. Tbh... Idk? As in I don't necessarily have a specific type. While I very much prefer people who message be open to dating, including sexual stuff (so, y'know, 18+ minimum) and that youse also be in the U.K., if anyone just wants to be friends or long distance (LD) then that's cool too :D.

Also, please try to be patient with me. Autism and several years of abuse from CAMHS (as I'm sure pretty much every Brit recently can relate to), alongside sooooooooo much drama even at university, make me somewhat insecure about whether or not people actually like me when they say they do x). No this doesn't manifest into me crashing out, I just need reassurance if we do get close!

Adding on to that, please be someone willing to put a lot of effort in. Whenever I get close to people, platonically, romantically and/or sexually, whatever, I put a lot of me energy into that, understanding and enjoying their hobbies as much as I can, being there for them emotionally, mentally physically, etc., and while I can and do acknowledge we all fall back at times, whether we just be friends or smthg more, I would really really prefer that you be willing to talk frequently (not hours every day, even just checking in is fine) and put that same emotional energy in too!

Other things are uh... I'm vehemently anti-marriage so I'm sorry if you want that but it won't be happening with me ever.

If anything sexual does happen, know that 1) I'm a virgin, so I'm sorry if I'm inexperienced and slow, 2) I have sex trauma from past terrible relationships and so may need more support (though I'm also going into therapy soon), and 3) I AM into BDSM and similar stuff. It's not a deal breaker if you're not, just please be upfront about it. Though even then I'll be double checking regardless x).

And, ofc, be ok with me being poly.

Fun important facts about me I couldn't think to really fit anywhere else:

I'm a vegetarian going vegan.

I've been on HRT for 3 months and plan to have a full penectomy and vaginoplasty.

I'm learning Bangla slowly as one of me girlfriends is Bengali and... she's just amazing.

I work from 04:00 - 08:00 most days of the week so me sleep schedule is a bit sporadic.

And that's it :D. Thank you for reading this far, I hope you liked the post and if you do then please feel free to DM me :3

Hi! First of all, yeah there's next to nothing on me account, I'm a lurker more than anything bcs I try to keep me digital footprint relatively clean outside of when talking to close friends and partners :p. (Also apologies in advance if I did anything wrong with this post).

Anyway, I'm 19 and a proud trans woman from England (yes, I hate it here) and me sexuality is... complicated? I've loved women since birth but omgs the past week and a bit has been a rollercoaster for me sexuality. What I can say for certain though is I'm some flavour of lesbian and love me two girlfriends :).

Specific about me stuff before what I'm looking for:

I'm about 175 cm (I think?), long brown hair that's frizzed to shit, brown eyes, and I just recently got braces fitted after several years of paperwork going missing (thanks private healthcare🙄) so I look like a mess x).

As far as hobbies go, well, I LOVE LOVE LOVE the Malazan books, all of them (ok well Esslemont's additions are hit and mess, BLOOD AND BONE FUCKING SUCKS), as well as reading a looooot of history and political theory. I'm a Trotskyist Communist and am currently working on a long arse project to tell the entire history of the U.S.S.R. and other Socialist projects globally (yes I'm ambitious); I'm a big Death Metal fan (Cattle Decapitation, Digested Flesh, The Black Dahlia Murder, Beyond Creation and Nile are awesome), though I do love other forms of music too :D, Little Simz forever holds me heart. Other than those I do play games when I get the chance, mostly Soulsborne ones (WHY IS THE OLD HUNTERS DLC SO HARD ALREADY) and I'm an aspiring archaeologist and anthropologist, currently studying both at university and going on a dig in late June :3.

Ok as for what I'm looking for. Tbh... Idk? As in I don't necessarily have a specific type. While I very much prefer people who message be open to dating, including sexual stuff (so, y'know, 18+ minimum and if anyone messages looking to date please be 24 at oldest) and that youse also be in the U.K., if anyone just wants to be friends or long distance then that's cool too :D.

Also, please try to be patient with me. Autism and several years of abuse from CAMHS (as I'm sure pretty much every Brit recently can relate to), alongside sooooooooo much drama even at university, make me somewhat insecure about whether or not people actually like me when they say they do x). No this doesn't manifest into me crashing out, I just need reassurance if we do get close!

Adding on to that, please be someone willing to put a lot of effort in. Whenever I get close to people, platonically, romantically and/or sexually, whatever, I put a lot of me energy into that, understanding and enjoying their hobbies as much as I can, being there for them emotionally, mentally, physically, etc., and while I can and do acknowledge we all fall back at times, whether we just be friends or smthg more, I would really really prefer that you be willing to talk frequently (not hours every day, even just checking in is fine) and put that same emotional energy in too!

Other things are uh... I'm vehemently anti-marriage so I'm sorry if you want that but it won't be happening with me ever.

Fun important facts about me I couldn't think to really fit anywhere else:

I'm a vegetarian going vegan.

I've been on HRT for 3 months and plan to have a full penectomy and vaginoplasty.

I'm learning Bangla slowly as one of me girlfriends is Bengali and... she's just amazing.

I work from 04:00 - 08:00 most days of the week so me sleep schedule is a bit sporadic.

And that's it :D. Thank you for reading this far, I hope you liked the post and if you do then please feel free to DM me :3