u/GeeSette616

What am I doing wrong?

I am coming from a place of burn out when it comes to the dating scene right now, so please bare with me.

I am 30 F, single and live in South Florida. I go to single events about twice to maybe three times a week to make a connection with the right man and I have gotten nothing. I have done speed dating events, board game nights, salsa classes, a literal masquerade event, and so many more things to look for a man. I always go looking my best and with the best attitude, because I know I have a lot of fun at these events.

Don't get me wrong, I talk to a lot of guys at these events but all these guys just end up viewing me as a friend and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. The ones that I am interested in, usually aren't interested in talking to me at all, and that's very frustrating. Last night, I went to a masquerade event where I spoke to almost half of everyone there (I'm quite the social butterfly if you will), but none of the men were interested beyond just friendship with me.

My question is: am I doing something wrong? Should I be doing something different?

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u/GeeSette616 — 1 month ago
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Is anyone going to the Masquerade Thursday event tomorrow night?

If so, what are you wearing to it? I have a longish black dress I'm going to wear, and I think I'll be fine in it.

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u/GeeSette616 — 1 month ago