u/Gen2hugs

Anyone down to go to the Iran Vs New Zealand game with me??

The guy (34M) I am (27F) seeing has been consistent for the past months.

He’s gotten me flowers, gifts, date nights & communicating every day. We get along very well & have not sparked up a fight. He’s chilvarous and well rounded.

The only issue is- we get along too well. Yes, I didn’t know there was such a thing. Sometimes I feel like we act more like best friends than anything romantic.

Every time we hang out, we’re constantly laughing & cracking jokes. We’ve gotten comfortable with each other to the point that we express each other as “dude” or “bro” sometimes. He’ll also call me cute names like sweet cheeks or mon cheri. And we’ll say “I miss you.” But 85% of the time we’re goofing around to the point where when we do flirt we lowkey don’t know how to act… almost awkward.

He’s does kiss me, support me & compliments me. Makes sure I’m okay. But from past relationships, I’m used to the romantic aspect dominating the relationship more than the friendship aspect.

For example, we’re always laughing at memes and talk about them. And he mentions how “fun” I am and “amazing” because I make him laugh a lot. But I’m not sure if being fun is an actual compliment or normal?? Or if he hangs out with me just because I’m fun? I’m conflicted because what if he sees me more like a sister than a potential girl friend? Because I’m fun?? Are girls supposed to be funny? Lol

Anyways, my question is this- is it normal for the person you’re seeing to also act like your best friend to this point? Is this a good sign? Thoughts?

Tl;dr my man is too friendly with me

The guy (34M) I am (27F) seeing has been consistent for the past months.

He’s gotten me flowers, gifts, date nights & communicating every day. We get along very well & have not sparked up a fight. He’s chilvarous and well rounded.

The only issue is- we get along too well. Yes, I didn’t know there was such a thing. Sometimes I feel like we act more like best friends than anything romantic.

Every time we hang out, we’re constantly laughing & cracking jokes. We’ve gotten comfortable with each other to the point that we express each other as “dude” or “bro” sometimes. He’ll also call me cute names like sweet cheeks or mon cheri. And we’ll say “I miss you.” But 85% of the time we’re goofing around to the point where when we do flirt we lowkey don’t know how to act… almost awkward.

He’s touchy, kisses me, supports me & compliments me. But from past relationships, I’m used to the romantic aspect dominating the relationship more than the friendship aspect.

Anyways, my question is this- is it normal for the person you’re seeing to also act like your best friend to this point? Is this a good sign? Thoughts?

Tl;dr my man is too friendly with me