u/General-Champion-377

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about a year now, and he is extremely pro vaccine. I have never had a shot in my entire life, and have always been very anti vaccine.

I am an incredibly open minded person, and I have spent hours upon hours trying to learn about vaccines over the years, to see if I could shift my opinion. I haven’t been able to… until now.

When I met my boyfriend, for some reason something clicked. He explained vaccines to me in a way that really made sense. I trust his judgement so much, that I have actually started thinking about switching “sides” somewhat. This topic matters a lot because we want kids one day.

This has shocked me honestly. I never thought I could change.

Has anyone ever changed from anti vaccine to pro vaccine? I would love to hear your story about why and what it looked like. This feels scary, but I’m continuing to ask all the questions.

Would love to hear what it is, and why you decided that you could no longer compromise on it.

I’m asking this because I am trying to figure out what is a safe level of compromise in order to have a healthy longterm relationship. I am in my 30s, have already been through a divorce and don’t want to ever do that a second time.