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Hello everyone,

I’m currently a 2nd-year engineering student and on my summer break. Recently, I’ve been thinking seriously about starting my journey in Salesforce and exploring it as a potential career path.

At the same time, I’m also confused between different domains like Web Development, AI/ML Engineering, DSA-focused preparation, and Salesforce. Since there are so many options, I want proper guidance before investing my time deeply into one field.

I’m looking for guidance from someone who is already working in Salesforce, especially people who are in good roles, have solid industry experience, or understand the growth, opportunities, and salary prospects in this field.

I have a few doubts regarding:
• How to start learning Salesforce properly
• Certifications and roadmap
• Career opportunities and future scope
• Internships/fresher guidance
• Skills required to grow in this domain
• Comparison of Salesforce with Web Dev, AI/ML, and DSA-based career paths

If anyone here has good knowledge or can connect me with an experienced person/mentor, please do let me know or DM me. Your guidance would genuinely help me a lot in making the right decision for my career.

Thank you in advance!

I’m a male in my 20s. Around 8–9 months ago, I met a girl through a dating app. We met in real life, and initially everything seemed fine. At that time, after college I used to go to the library regularly. During those hours she would call me, and I would leave the library to meet her. We used to spend time together, usually going out for tea or coffee, and I was the one paying most of the time.

This continued for around 1–2 months.

Over time, I started noticing toxic behavior from her side. She became extremely possessive and controlling. She didn’t like me talking to any female friends from college. Even normal conversations with classmates became an issue. Whenever this happened, she would accuse me of cheating and threaten to end the relationship. I kept trying to calm things down and stayed in the relationship despite these repeated arguments.

After around two months, she asked me to go on a 3-day trip with her. Since the relationship was still new, I told her my parents would never allow me to go on a trip like that, so I refused.

After that, she said she would instead go on the trip with one of her male friends because “everyone else was going as couples.” I was uncomfortable with it and said no, but she ignored my opinion and still went on the trip with him while being in a relationship with me.

During the trip, I received a picture of her with that guy. In the picture they were half-naked, hugging in front of a mirror. I felt hurt and angry.

Out of revenge and frustration, I spoke to one of my female college friends and asked if I could send a picture of her back where her face would not be visible. She agreed, and I sent that picture to my girlfriend.

After that, everything escalated badly.

She called me and started abusing me verbally. She began messaging my friends, sisters, relatives, and many people from my social media following list. Soon after, I got threatening calls telling me to come to college or they would come to my house. The calls were from the same guy she had gone on the trip with, who also studied in my college.

She threatened to come to my house and tell my parents that I had treated her badly. I got scared and contacted one of my friends for help. He spoke to them to understand what was happening, but after that I kept receiving calls from unknown numbers continuously.

They kept accusing me of “using” her, even though we never had any physical relationship. In fact, there was one time she asked me to book a room, and I refused.

Eventually, I spoke to my sisters about the entire situation. They talked to her directly to understand the issue. After a lot of drama, arguments, and pressure, the matter ended with me apologizing and agreeing that we would never contact each other again.

However, even after that, every 20–25 days I kept receiving messages from unknown accounts blaming me for everything and restarting the same arguments.

This has been continuing for nearly 8–9 months now. She is blocked everywhere, but she still finds ways to message or call me through unknown accounts and numbers. Even today, I received another message from her repeating the same accusations and trying to start the conversation again.

A separate point worth recognizing: both sides escalated the conflict at different moments. Her controlling behavior, threats, harassment, and involving others crossed boundaries. At the same time, sending another girl’s picture “for revenge” also escalated the situation and gave them material to attack you with, even if the face was hidden and consent was given. That doesn’t justify ongoing harassment, but it likely intensified the conflict.

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