u/Giafidela

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Do other ENTJs struggle to find benefit in venting to others?

Hi, all!

ENTJ here! I'mma get to the point, I was curious if other ENTJs find it difficult to actually open up about their own struggles/vents to friends?

For context, I'm about to go into graduate school for counseling and people love coming to me for advice/comfort and if I need advice/comfort I go to my therapist or partner or myself but I almost never go to friends and I have plenty of them who would be there for me if I needed to!

I feel like I usually have the best advice for my situations just bc I am very attuned to myself.

Any other ENTJs notice this about themselves too?

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u/Giafidela — 9 days ago

Three Enneagram Types Adjacent Ties, wanna help me choose?

Hey, y'all!

About six years ago, I (F20) took my first and only Enneagram test. It was a tie for 1, 2, and 3. After reading them I had chosen Type Three because of "The Chameleon" attributes. However, I took it again today and got tied for the same three types... literally six years later. For additional information on me, I've also been an ENTJ-A since I was in elementary school, LOL. If anybody here is into astrology, I'm a Leo sun, Aquarius moon, and Virgo rising.

Now, I'm not sure if I can actually consider myself a Type Three if I'm still tying with the same three personality types. I'd love to hear your guys' tips and tricks on choosing types when ties occur based on what you think is most accurate, your comments/thoughts/questions on Ennegrams having three adjacent ties, similar experiences, and so on! While y'all don't have to attempt to help me choose a type (though, I'm totally up for it) this is just a really interesting experience I'd love to discuss with y'all. :)

Thanks in advance for your replies. <3

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u/Giafidela — 1 month ago