Hi, I’m getting my license soon and looking to buy a used car in Charlottetown,PEI. Make either Hyundai, Toyota or Chevrolet not anything over 200,000km. Looking to purchase one beginning of June, something simple for daily use and not too pricy. Preferably Charlottetown Area as that’s where I live. Any leads would be helpful.
I 35M and my wife 32F have been together for 10 years married for 7 years. I have my own HVAC company while she's a Software Engineer at a company in my city.
Her work hours are usually 9 to 4 while mine is from 8 to 6. I usually have breakfast ready by the time I get up, lunch packed and get dinner ready by the time I get home. Same for the kids, 7M, 10F and 12F and groceries and house cleaning are always done. I don’t even know when she manages to attend the kids school stuff and take them for appointments and keep them entertained.
For context, she had a big project coming up and was gonna have long hours 9 to 6:30 for two weeks. When she got home she would still make dinner and everything including meals but i noticed that the house wasn't as clean as before and we were behind on laundry and groceries which she said she would get on over the weekend and that we had essentials on groceries so it was fine.
The last straw that day was when she called me to get some stuff from the store for the kids school project, granted I was tired and I wasn't sure what exactly they needed but she sent me a list. I ended up getting the wrong items and when I got home my daughter told me that i got the wrong stuff but my wife made it work anyways. That night we had left overs for dinner and I didn't really feel like I wanted to because I wanted a fresh cooked meal especially after working long hours. I was angry and ended up yelling at her in front of the kids that she was too lazy to cook a fresh meal.
She then said that we would get fresh groceries on Saturday, this was Friday evening and that we should just eat it for tonight. That's when I yelled that clearly she doesn't do much around the house considering the state of house. She looked so shocked and it's like a switch just flipped. She didn't even speak after that, she just made sure that the kids were fed and made sure to help them finish their school projects and got to them.
I felt bad after that and wanted to apologize but she slept in my daughter's room for the night. I stood by door and heard her talking to my daughter saying that daddy was just tired and it’s not okay to talk to anyone like that. In the morning she woke up, got the kids ready and took them shopping, a day of fun and got groceries. They just got back and she still won't talk to me. What can I do to fix this situation. Also AITA?
EDIT:
Because my wife never really asked for help I assumed that everything was fine. She bounced back pretty quickly after having our kids, mostly because her mom was also around to help adjust. She makes time to work out every morning. I really also appreciate her that everything is ready for me and the kids by the time I wake up.
After writing this I realize how out of touch I’ve been with my wife, kids and reality. I’ve never attended their appointments, never planned their birthdays, I don’t even think I’ve ever attended their school things. I was walking around our house and realized that they have awards to things I never attended. My wife just made it look so easy because of how much she handled.
Reddit:
Is there any way to fix this?