u/Glad_Balance_1760

Hey yall!
So planning my first ever trip to nyc next week and I am soo excited, gonna be there for just 1 weekend to see my cousin, I’ve told her that I am meeting a old friend who lives in nyc lol.

I want good club reccos where I can be the biggest mess and go crazy lol it’s my night to go wild!

If anyone wants to join me feel free to do so
My stats are 21, 130lbs, 6’3, lean lol

So if you haven’t seen my first post here’s the link
https://www.reddit.com/r/nycgaybros/s/CB1Z3A69ty

So I did invite him over for a movie that night; he suggested we go to the movie theatre I said yeah that sounds fun. We watched “Devils wear Prada” cuz obviously we kinda didn’t talk much cuz I was so into the movie (it was not great lol) we held hands which was so cuteeeee. He is about (5’9, blonde and medium build) not my regular type but I rolled w it.

After the movie we were confused on what to do so I suggested him the idea of talking a walk cuz public garden was right next to the AMC. I love me a good night park walk. We talked, we laughed, we saw the tulips blooming life kinda felt happy haha.

We came back to mine cuz I was so ready to get laid and this man blew me away! I expected him to be vanilla but THIS MAN KNEW GAME! he coudnt stay over the night cuz he had work and dog duties so he left after some cuddles.

We started texting and seeing each other every night after that cuz he just lives down the street from me, we went for dinners, runs, brunch all that jazz honestly I was kinda getting into him he was so reserved yet so open I kinda liked that about him

And he came over today cuz he took off from work, he was kinda in a bad mood and I could sense it and I was like what’s up? He said “I haven’t been honest with you” I felt the ground under me eat me up. He is in an open RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER MAN, DATING 5 YEARS. They own a house together and a DOG. THATS MARRIAGE!! I literally went silent cuz I was literally flighting back tears. Obviously I asked him to leave instantly. Still in my BED crying writing this post and FaceTiming my bar friends cuz life is so fucking cruel.

I have blocked him for now obviously I won’t be going to his house and being a crazy bitch but it really hurts. ONE THING SOME MEN HAVE IS AUDACITY. UGHHHHHH

so that’s the update on that.

Okayyy so last night me and my friends went to a local Irish pub near my place just a casual evening drink typa thing. We go and sit my the bar and I order a guiness for myself and obviously try to split the G.

I see the guy sitting next to my friend look at me and give me a light smile so I smiled back, not thinking much about it. He started small talk with my friend on some sport shit that was on (I went with my straight friends) and then he gets up from his seat and starts taking with my friends. I don’t think much about it.

Next thing you know- he said hi to me and started taking. We actually live on the same street he was kinda funny and cute after about 10 mins of taking he was like can I grab ur number and WINKED. LOL my friends started smirking at me and I gave him my number. He grabbed the chair next to me and asked his buddies to move on the other side of bar.

My friend was going through a breakup and we were gonna meet to talk about it so I didn’t wanna give him my full attention but Instead be present for my friend. After about 10 mins we had more friends join in and we coudnt fit at the bar so we moved to a sit down table. So I say bye to this guy and whatever

Before leaving he looks my way and says bye and WINKS again. It made my night and I felt so good hahaha.

I normally don’t get approached by guys cuz I look super straight (6’3 lean athlete and I was wearing a reverse hat lol) so it was surprising for him to come up and just go for it. I might see him tmr at the same bar or invite him over for a movie tn cuz we’re on the same street lol 😝

Hey yall,

If anyone is moving out and wants to get rid of their AC I’d be happy to pick it up.

Thanks