r/acne

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Are Acne Scars a dealbreaker in dating

I am a 33F , fit, slim around 5 3 with long hair , prominent nose and eyebrows.I have a masters and have a job n everything.

I am really struggling to get into a relationship because of my acne scars.I have deep pitted and icepick acne scars which have ruined my skin texture.I struggled with self esteem and body image issues due to acne till 28.After that acne went away and scars still remain.I tried laser, tca cross and what not but the scars refuse to go away.

Anyways I have been on dating apps since 2 years and my photos get me great matches and compliments.

Every guy ravishes over my eyes, hair and it makes me feel good.

But as I go for the first date, there is usually no communication afterwards.There is no visible shock noticeable in the men but something changes when they see me in person.

Recently a guy flew from another city to see me and he was so excited and everything. After an amazing weekend, he stopped texting.

I texted a few times and he was a little reticent.Then he finally admitted that my acne scars bothered him.Its not my fault if the pictures dont capture that aspect but it really hurt me.

Are there no men who will ever date me?

Are acne scars a dealbreaker for every guy?

Don't kindness, empathy and warmth have no value in today's world.

I am super depressed and deleted all dating apps as of now

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u/RelativeMain5327 — 1 day ago
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Help Wanted! My Dermatologist is Genuinely Useless

Goin off to uni next year and I cannot be looking like this.. zero internships for me since first impressions are everything. My dermatologist just kicks me out in 10 mins and pops a few pimples like dawg wtf r u doin? Nothing he does ever helped me for 3 yrs. Btw he got some files on him abt touching his patients sexually.. why do I have to be stuck with this chud??

Pls before you say “JUST TRUST YOUR DOCTOR” please search up “Dr Rodion Kunynetz”…

I'm not an expert so I'll just copy and paste my prescriptions:
- Adapa/benz Pero 0.1/2.5% (SANDOZ-ADAPALEN/BENZ)
- Clindamycin/­b­e­n­z­o­y­l 1/5% (TARO-CLINDAM/BENZOYL)
- Trifarotene 50mcg/g (AKLIEF)
- Dapsone 5% (ACZONE)
- Tazarotene 0.045% (ARAZLO)
- Doxycycline 100mg (APO-DOXY)
- Clindamyc/ad­a­p­a­/­b­e­n­z­o­y­l (CABTREO)

u/Few-Comment4925 — 1 day ago
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Adult Acne after IUD removal

Hi everyone!

I’ve always struggled with acne since I was about 14. I was on the birth control pill until I was 20, then switched to an IUD. This caused bad cystic acne so I went on accutane. Fast forward, I got my IUD removed in January, I’m now 27F and my acne is terrible.

The left side of my face is getting large painful pimples, the right side of my face gets fewer but lots of small blackheads. Additionally my chin is getting whiteheads.

I wash my face with La Roche Posay Effaclar morning & night and use cerave AM & PM moisturizers. I don’t know what to do, when it starts to clear two days later it’s horrible again.

Looking for any tips 😭☹️

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u/Sensitive-Pen-780 — 1 day ago
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Acne discrimination

I had severe, painful acne that didnt respond to treatment from my teens through late 20s. During that time I felt discriminated against, like what I did and contributed was not taken seriously. I felt discriminated against for a pai full disease that I didnt choose to have.

I basically punted my 20s socially. I spent a decade trying different skin care and just exercising, and buying better clothes.

By my 30s acne and scarring was a thing of the past, I gained a lot of lean muscle, and became handsome. People never give me shit about anything, I have everything I need, and people want to be in my orbit. I actually used to contribute a lot more to any given group in my 20s than I do now in my 30s.

I had no idea just how extreme our culture is about certain diseases but not others. Ive grown to accept its just a bad culture, and that the people arpund me are underdeveloped, immature, and low intelligence. I just dont respect our systems or the people who buy in to them anymore because of this. There's just nothing good to say about my experience with it.

People who coasted through life, passed the system gatekeepers, but never developed self reliance or any actual skills other than kissing ass are everywhere, and I treat them as the utterly worthless drones they are.

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u/karateisntreal — 1 day ago
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Adult acne came back. I've tried everything. Too ashamed to see a doctor

I'm 32 with teenage acne and too embarrassed to see a dermatologist

Adult acne came back. My face looks like a teenager's. At 32…

I've tried every over the counter serums and nothing works and it's embarrassing. I feel like people look at me and think I don't take care of myself.

I'm too ashamed to see a dermatologist and I know that's silly. They've seen worse. But I can't shake the feeling of being judged

It sounds so simple. No waiting around in a waiting room and no need to explain myself to a stranger about my face

I don't want to waste my money on anything that doesn't do anything

But I am desperate and tired of hiding from mirrors

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u/republicman12 — 1 day ago
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SHOULD I TALK TO DERMAT

IM 18M

AND THESE ARE THE ACNE ON MY FACE AND IT IS KINDA IRRITATING WHAT SHOULD I DO

CONSULT A DERMAT? OR JUST LET IT HAPPEN.

OR MAYBE ARE THESE JUST HORMONAL AND GO AWAY SOON AFTER???

u/CuteTax2350 — 1 day ago
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19M I need help plss what can I do with my melanin rich skin?

What products and skincare routine should I use to get rid of my acne and even out my skin tone?

Help a guy out

u/Ancient_Shine6 — 1 day ago
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I need help! My acne is getting bad and I’ve been waiting for a year to see a dermatologist

I’ve had bad acne for years now (I’m 21). In 2024, it started to clear up (I only had a few pimples) but not long after I started taking HRT (I take testosterone) and it didn’t take long for my acne to come back and get really bad. I also started getting bad body acne which I didn’t have before. A few months ago, I started shaving (I use a razor for sensitive skin) and I started getting really bad acne on my jaw and my neck. 2-3 months ago it was looking like it was getting better and then a few weeks ago it started getting bad again (I think it’s because I started eating chocolate…) It hurts and I can’t stop touching my pimples with my fingers (it’s a bad habit I’ve had for years)

I wash my face twice a day (I use a Cerave cleaner in the morning and a Cetaphil cleaner when I shower in the evening) and use these products in the last pic I added. I also wash my body with normal soap and then Cetaphil and then a benzoyl peroxide cleaner everytime I shower. I’ve been waiting to see a dermatologist for a year now but I think I’m gonna have to go to a private clinic.

What more can I do to help it get better?

u/georgediqi — 1 day ago
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42F and thinking of trying spiro. Did you experience any side effects?

I’ll be 42 on Friday, am perimenopausal, and am thinking of trying spiro. I get these hormonal (sometimes painful cystic) flare ups around my cycle, sometimes during, and I’m just over it. I use tazarotene (similar to tret) at night, azelaic acid during the day, dapsone for inflammation as needed, and of course moisturizer and spf daily.

I’ve been avoiding spiro because 1) I was previously trying to conceive and 2) I heard it can have side effects. I take meds for diabetes (very well controlled) and statins for hereditary high cholesterol—not sure if those conditions will affect it in any way. I heard it can throw your cycle off too.

If you’re a middle aged woman, how did your skin and body react to spiro? Any side effects? Advice appreciated before I see my dermatologist next week and make a decision. Thanks!

u/unbrokenspirit_ — 2 days ago
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Breakout

Helloooo everyone!
I tend to have pretty clear skin and I just randomly started breaking out. I use a prescribed sulfur wash from my derm and azaleic acid but I took a shower a couple days ago and used a laroche posay face wash that my mom had in the shower. That’s the only thing I can think of that I did differently. Does anybody know what I should do to help it? Also please do not come for me I know this isn’t considered bad for some people but I never break out so just looking for some answers

u/Prior-Suggestion-323 — 2 days ago
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Help me get this off!!

This acne and scars have been driving me crazy. Please what is the fastest possible way to treat them and regain my normal skin??(they’re only on my cheeks and chin)

u/mrfresch — 2 days ago
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Too old for this

I’m 27f. Over the last few months my face has gone psycho. Mainly the left side but some on the right side.
I’ve tried Gold bar dial (worked okay, still had breakouts)
And Panoxyl (made it worse)
I’m lost on what to do.

u/Complete_Doughnut_94 — 2 days ago
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[Acne] Messed up big time and squeezed a pimple. Left with this massive scar and don't know what to do.

u/Santhosh15sk — 2 days ago
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Pink cheeks

I’ve had acne since I was 12 and tried just about everything. I did a course of Accutane but my acne came back about a year ago.

Tretinoin didn’t work for me, and I think I’m at the best possible routine with benzoyl peroxide and azelaic acid.

No matter what I do, there is persistent pinkness across my nose and cheeks. I wear a generous layer of SPF 46, I reapply, I moisturize, and I use azelaic acid. Even when I had post-Accutane clear skin, it was pinkish. Is this just something I should accept?

It’s usually not as bad as this photo, maybe 50% as bad as the photo. I took this pic after a hot shower so it looks a little more irritated.

u/circusfreek1 — 2 days ago
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Sudden severe, painful jawline/neck acne flare-up

I have oily and acne prone skin and I'm currently dealing with painful, deep inflammatory acne along my jawline and upper neck for the past week. As crazy as this might sound, I've been taking care of my health and diet the entire time, eating whole foods, avoiding fast food, lactose based foods and some specific foods like bananas or peanuts and bread (carb consumption regulation basically). And I've also followed this routine daily with the following products for the last 2 months: every morning ​I wash my face with La Roche-Posay Effaclar Purifying Foaming Gel Cleanser, and apply some Eucerin Sunscreen SPF 50 every 2 - 3 hours until the end of the day. Since I didn't wash my face at nights, I might suspect that this happened because of product build up. I also go for a run in the morning aiming to sweat at least and wash my face right after at least 3 times per week and drink at least 0.26 gallos of water (or 2.5 L) every day.

The thing is that for some reason this breakup happened while following that routine and keeping my diet neat. It's so frustrating and painful, plus its starting to affect my mood and productivity negatively.

Any active treatments for my condigion?

u/Helpful_Tax_5272 — 3 days ago
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How ca I fix my skin

I don’t know what I can do to fix my skin, I tried exfoliating and so many things. I feel so disgusting and I really don’t know what’s the cause of this

u/Apprehensive_Oil6961 — 2 days ago
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Please help me get rid of this

I had these tiny bumps all over my forehead. I started using 2% salicylic acid and now they are inflamed. How do I clear up my forehead.

u/DustyOnKbm — 2 days ago
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How the hell do you get rid of stubborn back hyperpigmentation? I’m losing my mind

My back has been my biggest skincare blind spot for YEARS. During a really bad period with my mental health, my hygiene wasn’t great which=back pimples and I got into a habit of picking at bumps on my back as a coping mechanism. Now I’m left with really dark brown marks that have been there for as long as I can remember.
I’ve only recently started using The Ordinary Glycolic Acid 7% on my back (literally a few days ago), so obviously I haven’t seen results yet, but I’m desperate to fade these because they’ve seriously affected my confidence.
If you’ve dealt with stubborn back hyperpigmentation/post-acne marks, what actually worked for you and how long did it take? Is glycolic acid worth sticking with, or is there something better?
I really don’t want to go crazy with 10 different products and make it worse, especially since i’m brown so the spots would get even more ridiculously dark. (P.S the photograph is being generous, The spots are darker in real life)

u/fuckfuckityy — 3 days ago