Looking for accountability
Looking for a genuinely strict accountability partner — 28F
I'm looking for a serious accountability partner who is comfortable being very strict and authoritative with me.
I've tried app blockers, money-based consequences, and other systems, but they don't really work for me. What I seem to need is another real person who will actually hold me accountable.
I'm NOT looking for someone who just gives encouragement or lets me make excuses. I need someone who can call me out when I'm procrastinating, challenge me when I'm trying to get out of something, follow up when I disappear, and expect me to actually do what I committed to.
For example, if I say "I don't want to do it" or "I'll do it later," I need someone who can basically say: "I know you don't want to. You committed to doing it. Do it anyway. Check back with me when you've started."
I'd like regular check-ins, clear expectations, and an agreed consequence/escalation system when I repeatedly don't follow through.
I'm looking for strictness, consistency and a strong accountability dynamic — not humiliation or abuse. This would be completely consensual, with clear boundaries.
I'm also willing to **give the same level of accountability back**. If you're working toward your own goals, I'd be happy to be the strict accountability person for you too — so this can be a two-way arrangement.
I'm 28F and looking for someone mature, serious and genuinely comfortable being strict. Ideally someone who is direct, persistent and isn't afraid to call me out when I'm making excuses.
If this sounds like the kind of accountability you're looking for too, feel free to message me.