u/Glass-Suspect3169

I don't really mourn being unlovable as I'm too insecure to accept it anyways but it's the fact that I'll never be given the chance to love anyone despite how well I could. If anyone were to open themselves up to me and let me in there life's I'd never leave.

I can't imagine being in an argument as seeing family members in these situations I'll always take my partner/friends side as everyone's right in there own heads so there's no point fighting over it.

You could let yourself go around me without fear of judgement as it's your personality and willingness to show that side of yourself to me that'll bring us closer. There wouldn't be pressure to constantly keep up with your appearance as long as you are comfortable with yourself.

I wouldn't get jealous of my partner socializing without me as I'm a little bit of a hermit but if they wanted me to come then I'll get over myself and go.

I just daydream about having someone who isn't family that I could exist with as each others favorite person and it doesn't even have to be romantic.

This is such a pathetic post but it's true. I'd love to give someone all my attention and self in real life.

We're all usually able to determine who is and isn't conventionally attractive by societies standards.

Someone can be conventionally unattractive but there's still attraction there because you're interested.

This is in the hypothetical unrealistic scenario that an attractive person would be interested at all.

So would you date an attractive person? Someone who's considered above average in general.

I don't think I could as I'd be too insecure. There'd be too much jealousy there and relationship wouldn't work as I would need constant reassurance that this person's actually into me and won't leave.

I honestly get a little pissed seeing other unattractive people drooling over normies they'll never get as it's only making us look stupid. Don't complain about being lonely if you won't date in your league.

Not saying it's any easier but women tend to have a broader range of what's considered attractive.

Women appreciate unconventional features in ways men usually can't. I'll usually see men online have the same handful of celebrity crushes whilst women come up with the most niche odd looking men and genuinely gush over them.

I've almost grown to become somewhat against men. I think it's the fear of them being disgusted to be around anyone who they aren't attracted too as if we're automatically going to be going after them.

I'm bisexual but can't help but have more attraction to men (visually) I wish I could switch it around or take it away entirely and become lesbian.

I don't have anyone in my life who isn't family and it's making me feel more like shit then I already do.

I'm looking for someone who's in the same boat as I am (conventionally unattractive). Preferably socially awkward too as I'll feel uncomfortable talking to anyone who's had partners and partied lmao.

I'll be 20 this year so I'm looking for someone who's my age + (20 - 40 s) I'm desperate. dead-ass.

I'm not just unattractive but straight up uncomfortable to look at. I haven't felt this frustrated with myself ever and I don't know how to deal with it.

Life's not all about looks but it is if it's causing you extreme discomfort and anxiety doing anything around anyone. I can't escape the level of self hatred I feel being anywhere other than home.

Even the thought of ending myself and the pictures that'll be used to show who I was upsets me. How I will look after death to anyone who's having to deal with my body is a headache. I want to disappear immediately.

Everyone on r/ugly who's shown themselves to me id gladly switch bodies with in a heartbeat. that's not invalidating anyone's feelings as it's because there isn't anyone I can imagine judging on appearance alone so if I'm someone else I'll have a little more empathy and self love.