u/GlassConfidence4983

so, i'm a transgender male, i've been pan for a while too.

it's really dumb, but i have fictional crushes(f/os), and a genderfluid lover (we both have and support these crushes, it's perfectly normal for us)

i've noticed that, very few of my f/os are women, and ive fallen out of love with them.

i'm afraid that women/femininity just do not appeal to me anymore, and find myself attracted to only men and masc-leaning enbies. however, my love is focused on being more feminine lately and i fully support it, but i don't want to hurt their feelings or make them upset by saying im heavily attracted to masculine looks now

i'm not sure what to do, i'm genuinely really scared. i'm never falling out of love with them, but i still want then to be comfortable with who they are without me forcing my own personal preference onto them.

sorry if this doesnt make any sense at all, its 5am and it's been bugging me all day and i just really need help :(