u/GlitteringTrifle766

How to know if a guy is good looking or not ?

How to know that, like if women have not approached a guy but at times some women might look towards face of this guy even when he is not looking at them. This guy does not get matches on apps. It's just that he dresses well decent tall and fair complexion wise, but his face is not that attractive. How can such a guy interact or where he can talk to girls?

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 4 hours ago

Can an average guy get matches on hinge or bumble?

Do men who get matches think a person with small or recessed jaw get matches, like if face shape is circular?

Like there is no exposure to talk to women and dating apps are the only point, what can such a person do ?

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 4 hours ago

I'm inviting men/women for doubles

For context I'm a software engineer, tier 1 graduate and advanced level badminton player. Inviting folks to play on daily basis, need 5 players who are advanced to intermediate+. It will be in Bellandur, if you are interested you can ping me. Yes looking for friends too.

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 2 days ago

Conventionally attractive girls what you see in men to date them?

Maybe my image of beauty is blurred, I find any fit girl to be conventionally attractive. I wanted to know what you see in a guy. How much looks matter, do you date via dating apps only. I have seen all kind of men with attractive women so I'm unable to understand what they look for in men. How do some unattractive men build emotional connection with them if that is the case. What is the criteria to date girls, are they open to even being friends or not?

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 4 days ago

I wanted to ask do fair girls like fair men?

For context I'm very fair in complexion as a guy, like comparable to most fair girls but I have hardly seen girls willing to talk or even looked interested. I'm okayish tall like 5'10. Looks wise I'm not that appealing and I'm kinda thin like 57kg(working on it). I have seen fair girls with non fair men and dusky girls with non fair and fair men. I personally till now have not approached a fair girl, once asked a dusky girl which I found attractive like it was a convo starter but she said I'm not interested to talk. Then again I tried with another dusky girl and she talked but doesn't seemed interested. Rest I never got approached too. Does it mean I'm ugly? Never a girl went out of the way to talk, my voice also does not match my face. Wanted to know if there are any chances in dating world?.

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 6 days ago

Can someone with baby face liked by women here?

Is baby face attractive to girls or not? I find mostly men who are too masculine face wise are dating. How do people meet, I'm nearby Bellandur area, it feels weird too see couples all around. I'm thin in stature and decent tall like 5'10. Just wrote a bit description about myself. Looks are subjective, complexion wise wheatish to fair. I saw most women are with men or are talking to some guy, how are they meeting, i tried cold approach like very mild one in group classes but it was limited to hi hello, just wanted to know how are people dating.

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 6 days ago

Is it true that women get approached in office spaces?

I work in IT and in a product based firm but have never seen such things happening, people here say it's too common, I wanted to know is this very common or only made up things. For me i even hesitate to make eye contact and it feels weird to know that men even try to physically touch women, someone even made a post. Is this all made up or there is some reality to it?

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 7 days ago

It feels weird at times

People post about cheating dating hookups, as if it's so easy for them. How unattractive I am that no girl approached me, I'm unable to talk dirty, i don't look below face of any girl even by mistake. I'm 26 yo man, i honestly would rate 5-6 in looks to myself, other parts of life I'm doing good, I'm decent heighted too. Tbh I dont even know apart from dating apps how to connect without appearing creep or intrusive, i even read uncles dating women in 20s, it feels surreal to know all these things. I m living in a tier 1 city. What is that something that I'm unaware and which makes these things so easy nowadays for every other man?.

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 8 days ago
▲ 72 r/delhi

There is 10x more dating in Bangalore than Delhi

I'm unable to know how do people date in Bangalore too. But no girl walks alone here, in Delhi there are more chances to find a single girl. With one girl I have seen 6-7 boys in line trying to approach too.

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 9 days ago

People who say being fair is an advantage it's clearly not

I'm 26 yo guy, im tall and extremely fair like equivalent to fairness in girls. I'm 5'10 and my weight is less around 58kg. I approached a girl in gym who was dark skinned, and I just asked how long have you been exercising, she didn't even care to respond back, I asked very politely and she just ignored, I felt very down at that time. In my 26 yo existence I have not even received slightest attention, maybe my face is ugly. Yes girls would give a look and that's it. Even they don't stay around me as an example in queues at any social places or even exercising, when it's my turn they go away from their. And I'm in a tier 1 city. How ugly i must be that I don't even come in friendzone, just was not feeling well because I tried for the first time and this was the outcome. My face is not very structurally good as I was mouth breather in childhood so my jawbones are not very well defined.

I never had any bad intentions for anyone, just thought to talk and people say to make friends so I tried and did not even got a response. I don't know what to even do, my face is not good looking but my heart is very pure.

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 12 days ago

Just sharing what was trapped inside

I'm from a rich background, lived in tier 1 cities, I m a tier 1 graduate, tall and complexion wise fair but looks are ugly, my face grew disproportionately and which impacted my looks. I don't get nice pictures so I hardly use dating apps. I had been in college with no girls, no female cousins. No female friends too, now I don't know how to randomly approach with this face. Never thought the thing which is very easy for others will be this difficult for me. And i have played badminton till district level with proper training till high school. Can anyone relate? Yes there are men like us, not everyone gets to date easily.

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u/GlitteringTrifle766 — 13 days ago