u/Global-Sugar6334

What the h3ll do i do if a friend shared a family member i work with abused her and she doesn’t want anything done. The family member is of a well respected position, do i just let it slide.

As soon as I was able to, I became very independent. I moved out and started paying for all my own stuff. My parents divorced 6 years ago and once I moved out my rooms were repurposed and my stuff is collecting dust in storage rooms. I don’t have my own space at their houses. my mom has said she wished i visited more. I told her I didn’t have a space there. She just said I’m welcome to use the guest room. That is kind, I just wish she would maybe put some of my stuff in there to show it’s for me? It’s just hard not having your own space at your parent’s houses, it makes me feel unwelcome even if it’s not their intention. My relationship with my parents was strained when I moved out but it’s gotten better since. but I still feel like I have to put on a mask around them, like I can’t be myself. Is this a normal relationship to have with your kids? Am I not putting in enough effort? Are they not? i don’t know.