Obsessssed with this beaded teri. I lovedd the crystal bags but couldn’t afford any of them so im hoping and praying this is more affordable and omg can we talk about the gold chain strap?! This bag is perfect! Im so happy i didnt get any bags for a whole year! Now i can get this cutie
Am i the asshole for not wanting to move back to pakistan? For context im born and raised abrod. Barely visited pakistan growing up but got married there after family pressure what not. Anyways fast forward hes actually a decent guy, my best friend and a good husband and we have kids together. I lived in pakistan with him after getting married for like 1.5 years and then went back alone with kids for 6 months because his parents felt “lonely” (hes the only son).
Fast forward to now, his father isnt well and has reoccurring infections and doesnt go to the doctor himself to get checked up. Recently he passed out in the bathroom and hurt himself and there was no one else home except my MIL (they live alone). They have visas to our country but are only allowed to come for 6 months at a time and healthcare is not covered and very expensive. They came and stayed but had to go back.
Now my husband wants to go back and get proper treatment for him (as he should) but he also wants to take my kids and me for an indefinite amount of time. Im just struggling to deal with this. I dont want to go back. I have no family or friends there. We have loads of debt (husbands student loans) that we still need to pay off and my kids school experience is gnna b all messed up (only one goes to school).
I feel like we’re going to lose all our progress financially and career wise if we up and move. I dont think its necessary for all of us to go. I told him to go himself and get all the checkups done and then bring both his parents back with him. But he wont budge. I hate living there. I feel suffocated. I feel so depressed and anxious. I have no source of happiness there. And to top it off theres a lack of basic utilities that i just dont want to deal with. I dont want to deal with no bijli andno gas. Im sorry i cant do it. I already went once just for him all alone for 6 months to give his parents company and i hated hated my life but i did it. I just dont see the need for all of us going. His father isnt even thaaaaat sick. I get that they are old (70FIL, 57MIL) but they can definitely still take care of themselves and manage and just come live with us here. I dont understand how this is better. Im so stuck and frustrated.