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Inbuilt patriarchy of women ?
Antey dheenni patriarchy antaro em antaro nak idea ledhu…idhi chaala mandhiki silly ga kuda anipinchachu…so DRIVING and WOMEN DRIVERS…. Antey asal driving em aina abbaila janma hakku ah ?
Two situations….
- Asalu driving raani paniki maalina friend gadu kuda nen na sontha paisalatho konukkunna na car lo nen drive chesthuntey front seat lo kurchuni left nunchi cut cheyyi signal esko mirror chusko ani salahaalu isthuntey already ekkadoo kaali unnanu…
- Theera intiki ochaaka repu morning uru vellali, 5-6 hours journey. Oka akka valla mother in law ki bagaledhu husband urlo leru nen drop annadhi. Inko akka ma husband ki bagaledhu nen drop annadhi. I was supposed to go alone and i wanted to drive my car and go. Alone. So call chesi enti ippudu nuv okkardhanive velthava ? Avasaram ledhu driver ni theeskellu entha speed ga chesthav driving and antha long avasarama ? Akkarledhu !!! I was like what’s wrong???? I mean why is it so hard to trust me on long drives ?? Ikkada aithey hours together traffic lo i drive and you guys are okay. But, Inka nerpinchi endhuku ee sandhu nunchi ah sandhuloki thippadaniki ah ?? Iddharu brother in laws drive chestharu….iddharu speed ganey drive chesthaaru…nen speed ga vellina kuda vallaki equal
Ga antha speed lo drive cheyyanu inka thakkuvey chesthaanu…mari bava ki eppudu endhuku chepparu ? avasaram ledhu driver ni pettukuni vellandi ani poni repu second sis husband osthey kuda andharu okay unde kadha sontha drive lo velthaam antey…!!! So Why not me ??? Because i am a woman ??? high way la midha 20 lo velthara enti ??? What kind of inbuilt default patriarchy is this ?? I totally understand the concern…you are concerned but why that concern only for me why not for the men in the house ??? Nakardham kaka aduguthanu ? Am i making sense ? I don’t know !!!
u/Glum_Chemical1858 — 8 days ago