u/GlumpySoup

hey there! two weeks ago my cat developed a urinary blockage and was rushed to the hospital. i was across the country on a family vacation, and my boyfriend was at home with cat. i couldn’t stand being so far away so i ended up flying home early. it’s been about 2 weeks since obstruction, and we are now doing a lot of lifestyle changes and my kitty is recovering, but i feel like my mental health has deteriorated. i haven’t left the house much, i feel that i always have to record and time him in the litter box, one night he acted off and gave me a scare, and my anxiety got so bad the next day my lungs felt bruised, like painful to breathe bad. ive been sensitive and irritable with my partner, whenever i do leave the house for a few hours, my cats all i can think about. since ive been home i have been sleeping 10-12 hours a night and can’t wake up in the mornings, it’s like my body is now trying to recover from anxiety loops.
i guess i just wonder if any of you struggle when your pets get sick, and how you handle it. it’s really interfering with my life, and people close to me say my lengths are irrational but i truly feel that i am doing what i should be doing, but i can also tell it’s costing me my sanity lol

my fiance 22M and i 21F have been together 8 years and engaged for one. i’ve already set aside wedding planning due to some behavior i haven’t been liking recently (coming home late, binge drinking with friends etc) but after some times passed i began planning again two weeks ago.

today my fiance searched something for me on google, but first i saw his recommended link which was only fans. he quickly tried to hide it before i saw it, and i even took his phone and went back to double check. we couldn’t talk about it because we were infront of family. i am so furious. he is spending his money on other girls and i feel disgusted. i don’t want to see the models, or if he was conversing or chatting or whatever. i honestly don’t want to know. i am just so hurt and reconsidering moving forward at all. would you move forward in wedding planning?

also i am so caught off guard because i could never imagine him physically cheating on me, but i also would’ve never thought he would pay money for other girls online.