u/Gpueas

I (18m) Slept in a bed together for a weekend and cuddled with a girl (18m), don't know how to proceed.

So me (18m) and a girl (18m) from a different country met up to hang out in her hometown (she was in mine the week before) for a weekend. After a nice day of her showing me around and hanging out at her apartment, we got to talking about the sleeping situation. We ended up sleeping in the same bed together, but with a reasonable distance between us. I woke up in the middle of the night, as she had draped her leg over my lap in her sleep. I didn't think anything of it and went back to sleep. Next morning when I woke up she said she was cold, and nuzzled into my chest. I wrapped my arms around her and held her for a while, until she turned her back to me and pulled me against her, so my chest against her back. She took my hand and put it on her stomach under her shirt, and told me to tell her a story in my native language. I was a bit flustered, but did anyways. We stayed like this for a while, until I got too warm and layed on my back. She asked my why I stopped, clearly wanting me to continue. Later that night we went to bed again and she asked me to "massage" her boobs. I thought she was joking so it took me a while to catch on. In the meanwhile she reached back to touch me through my pants, which I didn't know how to react to other than to tell her it was nice. Nothing more happened after this, did I do something bad? We still text often, but we haven't talked about it since. I feel like I should tell her how I feel, but I'm a bit shy to do so.

Any advice would be appreciated.

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u/Gpueas — 4 days ago

Slept in bed together and cuddled, but no more.

So me (18m) and a girl (18m) from a different country met up to hang out in her hometown (she was in mine the week before) for a weekend. After a nice day of her showing me around and hanging out at her apartment, we got to talking about the sleeping situation. We ended up sleeping in the same bed together, but with a reasonable distance between us. I woke up in the middle of the night, as she had draped her leg over my lap in her sleep. I didn't think anything of it and went back to sleep. Next morning when I woke up she said she was cold, and nuzzled into my chest. I wrapped my arms around her and held her for a while, until she turned her back to me and pulled me against her, so my chest against her back. She took my hand and put it on her stomach under her shirt, and told me to tell her a story in my native language. I was a bit flustered, but did anyways. We stayed like this for a while, until I got too warm and layed on my back. She asked my why I stopped, clearly wanting me to continue. Later that night we went to bed again and she asked me to "massage" her boobs. I thought she was joking so it took me a while to catch on. In the meanwhile she reached back to touch me through my pants, which I didn't know how to react to other than to tell her it was nice. Nothing more happened after this, did I do something wrong? We still text often, but we haven't talked about it since. I feel like I should tell her how I feel, but I'm a bit shy to do so.

Any advice would be appreciated.

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u/Gpueas — 4 days ago