I am looking for Portuguese musicians to listen to. My friend who is Portuguese says that they mainly sing in English but surely there are some good Portuguese musicians out there whom are understandable when they sing that will be useful to listen to, learn and enjoy at the same time?
So gents lets throw them out here. I'll give a few but I'd love to see some more. And for those who want to say that it isn't all about them, yes, it's not but all I'm asking here is practical tools. So for me the top two are validation of feelings without needing to agree (but keep that to yourself at first), and number two always follow through with what you say you're going to do, one more is listen to what she wants and if need be ask how best to still work together whilst still trying to follow though with what she has asked of you.
So I have to just put this out there because it needs to be said. It´s noble to want to try save all the relationships that have moved into peri-menopause BUT should they be saved. If you have been in a relationship for years and you cannot identify if there are more good times than bad times then peri is the straw and the camel. In some cases the wife is married to a third child or a man who sees change or improving himself as dangerous territory. In this case in peri she just finally saw what she is married to. The same applies to husbands, she was always a certain way but now it 's more. What are these people doing? If you have one life then really, these relationships should not be saved. If however life was good before because you were a good team and loved each other, then both of you carry that into peri-menopause and like before you find ways to navigate and not just survive but stay connected. Ask yourself, how was your marriage before peri came into the picture....