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I’m friends with this one girl who only texts me when she needs help with her assignments/ studying. At first, she used to rarely ask for favours, and when she did I was okay with it. I was even happy to help, but now the favours have become almost daily.
She always asks for favours everyday ranging from me sending her my assignments and helping her with her studies to her asking questions that could be answered with a simple google search within 10s of her time. It’s not that these favours she asks for are hard to do. Most of the time she asks for my assignments which I already have done, it’s just mentally draining when someone only talks to you for that purpose only. It’s also annoying when she talks to me during exam nights like I’m not also swarmed with work just like her. She almost treats me like her personal AI assistant or something.
When I ask her for something, she sometimes doesn’t reply and then apologizes saying she didn’t see the message, things like that.
I have been toning it down with helping her like replying later, but I’m beginning to hate her now. How do I distance myself because I’m so tired of her?

I have a professor who has an awful reputation of being a pervert. I want to clarify that I’ve never experienced anything weird from him. The only thing I’ve noticed about him is that he just seems to favour girls over guys. What I mean is that he kicks out guys out of his lectures for the smallest inconveniences, but with girls he seems to be biased. Like one time he had to kick two girls out because they were laughing, and as he was doing so he said it breaks his heart when he has to kick girls out because they remind him of his daughter. It’s not really creepy when you think about it. The thing is all of my female friends tell me he’s a creep, and if I ever decided to go to his office I shouldn’t go alone and all that stuff. One of my friends told me that when she and her other friend went to his office, he kept telling them to get closer and things like that. Of course he doesn’t do anything damning, otherwise he would’ve been fired.
What’s new to this is that I heard some people talking about his facebook account, and how it’s crazy that it’s still up, and that the university should know about it. I know his facebook account, but I never bothered to check it thoroughly. Anyway, I decided to check it out, and to my surprise he posted links to literal porn websites and images I cannot even begin to describe. It’s important to mention these things were back in 2012, so it’s been a long time, and he probably doesn’t know they’re still up. I know it’s him because other professors follow him/ are friends.
I don’t know what to do in a situation like that? What do you even do, and how do I deal with this professor, considering he will probably teach me in an upcoming course?

I remember an hour being so much more than that. Telling someone they had to wait for an hour or getting told that was like you had to wait for eternity. Now, an hour is a very short period of time, you probably wouldn’t have time to do anything. It’s crazy honestly.