I am resuming my career after 2 years with a new job and I feel anxious about how is it going to work out. New city, new people, finding a place to live, how will the people be, paying of the student loan, leaving aging parents back in my hometown and so much. It feels overwhelming
worked at an organisation that did not provide me an experience letter but sent an email saying XYZ was your last day and relieving letter will be issued only when you return the assets. Thing is I have returned them but never got the letter.
Now though I worked only for 5 months, a few years back, it is a part of my resume. Also the company is now on the brink of shutting down. Everything is genuine from my end.
I also have a form-16 which states the exact duration and asset returning email. Will this be a problem at my new company in the background verification?
I dated someone during my MBA. We sure went through our ups and downs but I really liked her. Before the relationship began we had decided to part ways when we graduate. But both of us grew closer. I always wondered if she was the one for me but never had this conversation with her.
I also did not do the right thing, which was because I thought this was going to end, every time something major happened, like a fight where she would ask me for more of my time and me saying I also want to spend time with my friends, I used to ask to breakup. Also once when I was really drunk, I could not spend the diwali party with her, to which she was upset but it was I again who told let's break up anyway I disappoint you a lot.
The reason we thought we could not end up together was because she didn't want kids and I did. Also I want to settle down in the next 3 years but she wanted to when she is 30. Even if we decided to choose a middle ground when she is 28, it would have been like a sword hanging over her head, which is not what I wanted to do to her.
I just feel shitty for not handling things properly and hurting her because she is very sweet and genuinely a very very nice person at heart which is what made me contemplate if she was the one.
I know I made a lot of mistakes and it is eating me up from within that I hurt her.
Tldr: I dated someone during my MBA knowing we’d likely break up after graduation, but we got emotionally close. Because I believed it wouldn’t last, I handled conflicts poorly and often suggested breaking up, which hurt her. We also had real long-term incompatibilities (kids and timelines). Now it’s over, and I feel guilty for how I treated someone I genuinely cared about.