u/Green-Antelope2874

so basically i wanna say we were havibg a sleepover at my house and i randomly woke up and noticed im almost falling off the bed. i was literally half asleep and repeatedly told my bf to make some space to which he responded annoyed and eventually asked me „are you fucking stupid?“. we had an argument after and he didn’t wanna admit that he was disrespectful. he ended up leaving my house and when he got home, he called me and he was mad about me letting him leave in the morning like that and i didn’t say anything cause the disrespect didn’t come from me first idkkkk . . i just didn’t understand why he was treating me weird. i understood that he was tired. anyways, it didn’t matter how calm i tried to be because i didn’t wanna argue but i fucking ended up crying out of frustration bc he kept talking so aggressively 😭😭😭 anyway my mom heard me and ended up sending him a text. she said something along the lines of „if i catch my daughter crying one more time, that‘ll be my last warning“ because she caught me multiple times 😅 and he showed it to his mom and that resulted in his mom calling my mom a whore and she sent all those voice messages „i am not afraid of you, youre in no position to warn my son“ „you dont know what your daughter does here, i dont ever wanna see her in my house again“ my boyfriend thought the same as his mom and he didn’t wanna talk it out w me. i broke up w him. but guys ik im not tripping because whenever i was at their house i came out there crying so badly like his mom yelled at me in front of 20 other family members bc i was holding a plate wrong and i got told i take things too personal
Idk who wanna fw a bad bitch

Ill try to keep it short so basically me and my bsf we were really close and since maybe last year we started drifting apart but we still kept in touch.
At some point that changed and we didn’t even face time anymore. I was like whatever but when i saw her posting w other friend groups i got a little jealous and hurt because our plans got canceled by her.
I communicated that but it turned into an argument. She was basically saying that she was going through stuff and she‘ll try to be better which i didn’t really love and/or believe cause it seemed those boundaries were moreso there with me .
I told her that she’s important to me and id try to talk about it so she knows whats going on and to try and keep the friendship alive because she means much to me and i wouldn’t wanna lose that. However she got offended by that and i was like damn you’re acting like an asshole i obviously didn’t mean it that way (because she was like „how would you even know that when you’re not going through my shit rn“) Anyway. We talked it over and after talking it out, we hung out and she hugged me out of nowhere and apologized.
1-2 weeks later, we smoked when we were hanging out because she had the idea and i was like ok i wanted to anyways lol. So keep that in mind
The day after, i called and asked if she was up to go out and chill a bit. She said she wasn’t sure so i asked if she could call me later and let me know.
2-3 hours passed and she didnt pick up her phone. She texted me 10 min after and said shes at her aunts house and her cousin isnt feeling well so she couldn’t text me and she cant come . I was like well ok hope she feels better but ive been waiting for hours you could at least apologize. She was like „for what, we didn’t plan anything. Oh you mean for calling?“ i was like yea. She didn’t respond after that.
She called me 30 mins after and she goes „Well i have to get this off my chest. Yk when we smoked yesterday and you told me to inhale it for longer even though i told you im paranoid?“ (For context, she had to pick up her car in the morning) I was like yeah i thought you wanted to? (Btw we talked about boundaries bc she doesn’t smoke often) And i gave her advice on how much to smoke and how long she should wait after each puff. She said thats not smth you should do as a friend and i was like well if you were paranoid why were you smoking? I said i was sorry if it came off the wrong way but i genuinely thought you wanted to especially because you suggested it. Whatever whatever, she brushed it off and didnt wanna talk ab it anymore. She asked if i had anything else to say and i was like yeah why didnt you respond to me? i waited 2 hours for your answer and thats not respectful at all to not even apologize out of respect simply.
She said okay and there was a weird silence. I said okay and there was the silence again. I noticed there isnt anything she wants to say so i hung up.
A couple days later i saw her clothes and texted her to pick them up or i could bring them to her and i said i also want my red shirt back. She was provocative and was like „Well you want smth from me so im not gonna bring you anything“ idk it turned petty so fast over clothes. I didn’t let it get to me and i removed her from my snap and wanted to unfollow her on tt but she had already blocked me.
so thats it idk but just to rant real quick, my problem wasn’t at all that her cousin wasnt feeling well its the fact that you couldn’t even apologize just out of consideration for my feelings a bit as my friend. Its the little things fr . And then to call to speak ab your problem without even giving me reassurance. Idk it rubbed me the wrong way

My Bf says shes in love w me lmfaooo bc we kissed when we were drunk once and she wanted to keep doing more but i said no

Ill try to keep it short so basically me and my bsf we were really close and since maybe last year we started drifting apart but we still kept in touch.
At some point that changed and we didn’t even face time anymore. I was like whatever but when i saw her posting w other friend groups i got a little jealous and hurt because our plans got canceled by her.
I communicated that but it turned into an argument. She was basically saying that she was going through stuff and she‘ll try to be better which i didn’t really love and/or believe cause it seemed those boundaries were moreso there with me .
I told her that she’s important to me and id try to talk about it so she knows whats going on and to try and keep the friendship alive because she means much to me and i wouldn’t wanna lose that. However she got offended by that and i was like damn you’re acting like an asshole i obviously didn’t mean it that way (because she was like „how would you even know that when you’re not going through my shit rn“) Anyway. We talked it over and after talking it out, we hung out and she hugged me out of nowhere and apologized.
1-2 weeks later, we smoked when we were hanging out because she had the idea and i was like ok i wanted to anyways lol. So keep that in mind
The day after, i called and asked if she was up to go out and chill a bit. She said she wasn’t sure so i asked if she could call me later and let me know.
2-3 hours passed and she didnt pick up her phone. She texted me 10 min after and said shes at her aunts house and her cousin isnt feeling well so she couldn’t text me and she cant come . I was like well ok hope she feels better but ive been waiting for hours you could at least apologize. She was like „for what, we didn’t plan anything. Oh you mean for calling?“ i was like yea. She didn’t respond after that.
She called me 30 mins after and she goes „Well i have to get this off my chest. Yk when we smoked yesterday and you told me to inhale it for longer even though i told you im paranoid?“ (For context, she had to pick up her car in the morning) I was like yeah i thought you wanted to? (Btw we talked about boundaries bc she doesn’t smoke often) And i gave her advice on how much to smoke and how long she should wait after each puff. She said thats not smth you should do as a friend and i was like well if you were paranoid why were you smoking? I said i was sorry if it came off the wrong way but i genuinely thought you wanted to especially because you suggested it. Whatever whatever, she brushed it off and didnt wanna talk ab it anymore. She asked if i had anything else to say and i was like yeah why didnt you respond to me? i waited 2 hours for your answer and thats not respectful at all to not even apologize out of respect simply.
She said okay and there was a weird silence. I said okay and there was the silence again. I noticed there isnt anything she wants to say so i hung up.
A couple days later i saw her clothes and texted her to pick them up or i could bring them to her and i said i also want my red shirt back. She was provocative and was like „Well you want smth from me so im not gonna bring you anything“ idk it turned petty so fast over clothes. I didn’t let it get to me and i removed her from my snap and wanted to unfollow her on tt but she had already blocked me.
so thats it idk but just to rant real quick, my problem wasn’t at all that her cousin wasnt feeling well its the fact that you couldn’t even apologize just out of consideration for my feelings a bit as my friend. Its the little things fr . And then to call to speak ab your problem without even giving me reassurance. Idk it rubbed me the wrong way

(F18) today i had pe, just now actually, and we were playing volleyball. the teacher was commanding us around and shit, being strict whatever.
whenever someone screwed up or missed the ball, they were making shady comments and it put ppl under pressure. you did something wrong no matter what you did, if you didn’t move, you were wrong but if you tried to move then you were also wrong because „you should’ve let him take it“ … i was getting very frustrated because i also feel overwhelmed quickly and till this day i tear up when my dad raises his voice at me.
when they moved tjeir commentary to me i couldn’t take it longer and i was upset at that point so i called him out on his bs and he mockes me like bruh. and from this point on, i would like to ask for advice on how to move forward. hes popular and ppl like him but they also dont play around. im thinking i‘ll let it go until one of them starts again and ill just move like i normally would. what should i do about my mindset in general?

thank you