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Hi titas!! Ako ulit lol. What are your thoughts of this situation? First time ko to so hindi ko alam pano ko siya ittake lol.

I posted here 2 days ago na i’m exploring now, but my ex still comes over, we do the deed and keeps on saying he’s still hoping we could make it work— in the future.

Lil context why i ended things: if may problem he tends to isolate himself, im expressive w my emotion n thoughts so i expect the same thing. however, i cant ask him to be like that, he just cant. he has biiiigg problems rn na he dont normally tell anyone raw kahit close friends, fam or pinsan— pero nakwenfo niya sakin yung iba. and masasabi kong agree ako sakanya na sobrang wrong timing din talaga now.

Ff sa present: i blocked him to all socmed and may no contact kami na tumatagal ng 2 weeks pero nabbreak din.

Recently, siya naman ang nag break ng no contact namin (last time ako e) pagdating niya dito he noticed that i no longer have the same energy as before, he kept asking if may bago nako and sabi ko im exploring na, siya naman yung madaldal ngayon— ako 1 liner na lang sumagot.

While we’re doing the deed, ramdam ko mas intense ngayon— it was his loudest moan ever, he kept dropping dirty talks, he also asked if we can record it (lol??), he finally bring a condom (na matagal ko nang nirerequest), and kept saying na he’s still hoping na maayos pa namin yung amin. Basically madaming first time.

Honest thoughts from me: i’m starting to lose emotional connecting sakanya, im no longer empathetic, parang okay rin paminsan minsan may sx then walang bibigyan ng update afterwards ganon, nasanay na lang ako na wala siya.

Ito na need ko ng advise from titas:

should i just enjoy this without expectations?

once i meet a new guy for sure i’ll be ending this, pero should i tell the him na naging fwb kami ng ex ko?

should i consider na maybe soon mag work out kami pero mag explore pa rin ako? or should i stay loyal?

LASTLY: am i degrading my self worth?

Hi titass! Im in mid 20s, i only dated 1 guy nitong april lang but ended it narin. Then recently downloaded dating app to explore.

Kelan niyo ba masasabi na need pa mag “explore” and when to settle to this person na?

I’m casually talking to a lot of guys kasi nga nasa app ako and 2 of them are constantly chatting to me on IG na. 1 already asked me to VC and meet. At this point idk my next steps. Should i get to know him more habang nag eexplore pa ng iba orrr should i think of him as my “potential”? Right now ineenjoy ko lang makilala sila pero i’m not “hoping” na mag work kami— kasi dyan ako nagkamali last time.

Ty!!

I moved sa marikina pero im registered sa san mateo. San ko ba makikita if need ko pa mag register ulit and pede ba ipalipat ko sa marikina?

Sobrang fvcked up ng body clock and focus ko since feb due to work, heartbreaks (friends, partner) and lack of outside trips din (init eh).

Lagi kong hinahawakan phone ko if may nag chat reply agad hayxst di naman ako deprived sa attention pero sobrang validated ako pag may kausap. Di naman ako ganto, ayoko ng ganto.

I want to lessen my screen time.
Ayoko rin na mabilis ako mag reply if hindi urgent (friends, dates) tapos ineexpect ko same treatment.

I recently subscribed sa near gym so hopefully makatulong + need ko mag pacheck sa neuro to fix my sleeping sched. Any other tips aside from these steps na meron ako?? Ty titas!!

btw i have hobbies din like playing games, hiking, jogging pero cant talaga gumalagala cuz ang inittt huhu.

should i try booking 2 weeks trip sa bagiuo ng maiba naman mundo ko? :(( kaso start nako sa gym pala this week HAAH

Hi im planning to create a bumble profile and it’s my first time to try dating app as an adult HAHA.

Andami ko nababasa nakakaumay daw dun pero who knows? Ano ba dapat ilagay dun para macapture yung high intent na guy talaga? Yung pag nakita mo profile maiisip mo ah looking to for long term yan siya. Im not into hook ups so ayoko silang matarget ng profile ko!!!

Anddd also pano maiwasan ma cat fish? HAHA Ty!

Problem/Goal: recently had a heartbreak weeks ago. but i enjoyed all the lessons and gusto ko pang iexplore ulit yun

Context: ive been single for almost 8 yrs. never ako nahilig manood ng romance and makipag flirt so yung last na nakadate ko felt like we went too fast and hard??

anyway i gained a lot of lessons na tingin ko diko makukuha ng single ako so gusto ko pa mag explore ulit.

Explore in a way na gusto ko mag build ng connection sa guys at the same time it’ll help me know myself better (as a partner ha)

Sample lang:

- i didnt know submissive pala ako

- i thought im not ready for a relationship pero kaya ko pala

- i thought distraction lang siya pero nakakainspire pala if someone wants to be with u and is interested in you

Tbh validation ata need ko eh?? HAHAH EWAN

Basta…

I want to be better every single day. i want to be better than who i was yesterday.

Previous Attempts: none yet :,)