I am fuming so hard right now and need to know how to plan a clean exit
I can't believe I had to call my university and explicitly instruct them not to release any information to anyone unless they present my ID and it is actually me requesting it under absolutely no circumstances should they share anything with anyone else.
How do you make sure staff at any facility does not give those sons of a bitch any info? It seems people are too trust worthy and cant imagine why i would have to explicitly state "DO NOT LET ANYONE WHO IS NOT ME DO ANYTHING"
Yet they gave my parents, the same people who physically harmed me,information about my graduation deadlines. That information was important because I needed them not to know about it so I could make my own plans.
What confuses me is that they keep insisting on paying for my degree when I'm the one paying for it. I earned that opportunity after working at a terrible hotel and eventually being recruited by a great company. Around that same time, my parents decided to contact family members, expose some of the lowest moments of my life, and completely violate my privacy. None of this belongs to them at all
I genuinely do not understand why they continue to behave this way.
I hate them. I really do. Anyone who threatens to call the police on you, have you committed to a psychiatric ward, and openly says they wouldn't care if you died deserves nothing from you.
What hurts the most is that they took away what should have been my graduation. It was supposed to be something private, something on my own terms that happened DESPITE them NOT because of them
At this point, I'm actively looking for a job in another city because I want to leave this place entirely and start over somewhere else.
Part of me is tempted to save enough money, buy a plane ticket, and disappear without warning,just leave one day and never come back.