u/Grouchy_Sun_9601

So I’m 16F and have been suffering from these eye-splitting migraines for the past 4 years. I have been to the gp countless of times yet I’m always met with “are you on your period?” “Do you drink enough water” “how is your posture at school” and no real follow up apart from “make sure to keep a diary”. The only real pattern I’ve noticed is that my migraines are paired with very tender traps and the muscle at the base of your neck? And my headaches ease when they ease.

Over the counter painkillers do not even TOUCH the sides, naps make me feel worse when I wake up, not to mention school is sometimes unbearable and with being in the middle of my GCSEs at the moment, these migraines are really not helping to say the least.

The problem is I wake up with these migraines atleast 3 times a week at this point however today has been particularly bad. I have done some googling (not self diagnosing or anything) and I read about something called a cervicogenic headache? And my symptoms seem to be very similar. Can these be cured and should I push to see someone else? I honestly feel hopeless at this point and I’m worried that my quality of life has already been ruined and I’m only 16.

So I was around 14(F), and the guy I was dating was my first ever boyfriend, also 14. Id been to his house multiple times and we had made out countless of times but things never went further than that. I do remember that he would get constant boners when we did and I had accidentally lent on it a few times but nothing crazy.

So, his mum was out of the house one day and he invited me over and we kind of chilled in his room and put a movie on (I think you can see where this is going) and of course we ended up making out again but this time one thing lead to another and I had no bra on. Then he ended up unbuckling his pants and I was going to give a bj but holy shit did it reek of fish. Keep in mind he was uncut but I couldn’t actually put it anywhere near me because I was going to gag from smell alone. It was just pure raw fish. Now I awkwardly shifted up on the bed and instead was going to give a handy. So that’s what I did and he was rock hard don’t get me wrong and there was pre cum but I was going at it for like 10 minutes and nothing was happening.

So he took over and I basically just sat and watched him jerk off. Put my top back on and went home. Not so surprisingly we broke up shortly after.

Since then I’ve never been with an uncut guy, was that normal? What could’ve caused that god awful smell?