u/GroundbreakingCall24

Should I take these classes together ? I need to take a&p 2 but also want to get statistics out the way. How bad is statistics ? And I work full time :*

Hi I know this group is mainly for people within the relationship but my sister is/was (maybe she’ll leave for good idk) in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship. I cut contact with her a few months ago without knowledge of the circumstances because she would call me crying weekly over arguments and ask for advice but never followed through. I had a friend within an abusive relationship years ago and I told her this is exactly what happened and he will hit you next. He was already she just lied about it. He cursed me out over the phone in one of their episodes whe I told him he created a codependent relationship and they need to break up.

Fast forward today I find out she’s been kicked to the curb and the abuser broke all of her devices so he had to call numbers she remembered to get to family and get a ride to a family members house. I find out there’s a plethora of abuse going on she’s been silent about and she’s currently laughing it off but she’s scared for her life. She doesn’t want to police involved (she loves and cares for him and doesn’t want to see him fall) but the abuser has previous felonies.

Idk how to help what to do or how to process my feelings about this. I feel shitty for cutting her off a few months ago knowing now things were bad, but for my mental health I could not handle the constant stress and anxiety from her. But anyways how do I help because I don’t have the correct mindset for putting myself in her shoes to understand why she would stay so long (he asked her to leave gave her chances to leave and she always persisted to stay) . I’m not giving her money to because ultimately she’s grown and I have a child I’m not supporting an adult.