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What revenge can i do to my lying cheating dad?

Hi everyone, i’m in desperate need for advice. Basically my dad keeps cheating on my mom over and over again. Whenever my mom would confront him he would just deny and deny until my mom would eventually get tired. He would also act irritated that my mom would bring it up and get angry because he pays the bills so he doesn’t care. He always says that he’s been a good provider and always does what’s best for the family so she should just let him. My mom keeps forgiving him because everything he says is true but the more she forgives the bolder he gets. He hires dancers at clubs and hooks up with them, he goes to a different city just to meet all of his side chicks, he would text them really inappropriate messages and many more. But what bothers me the most is that he has this calm and kind look that manipulates you into thinking that he’s a good guy. The kind that makes you rethink if he ever cheated on my mom. My mom’s friends and relatives would often comment that he’s such a good husband and how kind he is. And i can’t help but laugh because that’s the complete opposite of the man that i know of. It’s scary how he maintains this kind father image while cheating on her multiple times. It just hurts me how my mother has no self respect at all and still treats him so kindly. That’s why i want to get revenge on my dad, but sadly i don’t know how. Before you all say that she should just divorce him, the problem is she can’t. We live in the Philippines so divorce isn’t legal here. What else can i do to get back at him? I’m asking for creative ways to fuck with his head and ruin his day because karma is taking too long and i want him to regret everything he did.

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u/Gsjsgsjsyus — 20 days ago