u/Guilty-Grapefruit427

I (M33) have been seeing a girl (F34) for three dates now. We both want something serious, and I’m taking my time to get to know her (no sex yet). Things are going smoothly, great dates but some things came up during a conversation about our dating histories that have me conflicted.

The + is that she seems kind, attentive, and I genuinely enjoy spending time with her. She has been in therapy for 5 years and working on herself

The - I asked her if she ever cheated ( The first time I met her I had this gut feeling telling me she cheated before ) she admitted to cheating on an ex of 6 years, she said he was a "bad person" and ended the relationship with him to dating the guy she cheated with for a year, then ended things with him because she "wasn't ready". She's still close friend with him and she says she hasn't cheated since.

I also noticed she tends overly agree with my takes. For example, I mentioned I'm not a fan of hookup culture and since I'm looking for LTR I want to build a connexion first, and she strongly agreed. Later, after a few drinks, she said she actually has no problem sleeping with guys that she just met if she likes them. Idk It feels like she’s hiding her real opinions just to please me.

I appreciate her honesty, but my gut is not feeling it. Is it too early to call it quits, or are these valid warning signs?

I just got back from a road trip through Georgia (the country) and Armenia, and something happened that I can’t explain. I’m a rational guy, but this has been bugging me ever since.

We were staying in a brand new chalet in a very remote area in the forest,b. The chalet was isolated, and there were several local guard dogs outside.

Before going to sleep, I personally locked the front door. I turned the key twice (double lock) and left the key in the cylinder on the inside. For those who don't know, when a key is left inside these types of locks, it’s physically impossible to insert or turn another key from the outside.

My travel partner was sleeping in the mezzanine. To get down, she has to use a ladder that are quite loud and complicated to navigate. I am an extremely light sleeperI hear everything.

During the night, the dogs went crazy and barking for a long time and tyenbit was a "sound of defeat"—mwhining and yelping like they were being dominated or terrified. Then, silence, so I thought it's the regular fight withv the jackals.

In the morning, I woke up and the front door was wide open. We had bread and some sweets sitting right on the table. Nothing was touched.

Outside, right by the door, the cigarette trash can had been knocked over.

My friend swears it wasn’t her and thought it was me. But I never moved, and I would have heard her climb down from the mezzanine it’s impossible to do that silently.

Looking for any similar stories