there is no saving girls who are defending BTS

Intense parasocial relationships are common during all adolescence,ESP among teenage girls, who may form strong emotional bonds as part of exploring their identity and finding a community. Social media can intensify these bonds by making celebrities feel more accessible through constant updates, lives etc (something the KPOP industry does to increase this parasocialisam-forward narrative) .

Teenage girls can also be particularly difficult to reason with when emotions and identity are heavily tied to a celebrity or fandom, because strong emotional investment can make criticism feel personal and cause them to become defensive.

Maybe one day they will wake up, but for now arguing with them is pointless, itll just give them a hightened sense of purpose, "defending their helpess, clueless, aisan men"

u/Gullible-Possible369 — 8 days ago

your favs did not invent a concept

too many people starting fan wars over concepts being done in all types of global media, cinematography and photography for years.

edit: before commenting about txt please see my comments related to it

u/Gullible-Possible369 — 9 days ago

no matter how many times they try to convince themselves theyre nu-kpop. thats not a thing.

>All these K-pop rappers try to pull up on me

This line is so superficial considering these boys, no matter how much they deny it, are kpop rappers. And id like to remind everyone "they can rap, but they will never be rappers"

No one is pulling up on you or your regurgitated hiphop concept, sorry.

u/Gullible-Possible369 — 10 days ago

morality of making monetized negative videos about Mina's death

better yet, the lack thereoff

ive been seeing alot of youtube/tiktok/instagram videos of their

a) NON kpop fans who are obviousley monetized using this situation to bash on the kpop fandom as a whole

b) Enhypen Anti's mkae 1+ min long videos using this to bash Enhypen and Engene. I understand that the *fandom* NEEDS to be criticized, but these people use Mina as a hook then proceed to just bash Enhypen, not mentioning mental health or cyberbullying further

also, the insane AI generated thumbnails, with Ni-Ki centered as what is pretty obviousley a Villan?

produtive converstation and awareness surrounding the situtation i generally agree with, but what do you all think is the morality of these SUPER negative takes , which help no one, being monetized for profit?

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u/Gullible-Possible369 — 15 days ago

my underrated favorite Enhypen duo : sunjake :>

i love their dynamic down so bad.. annoying younger sibling energy to eachother. Their australia En-dive showcased their friendship dynamic so well for the first time in awile.

I think they compliment eachother so well, but their duo is so overlooked in comparison to (for example) their respective duo's w/ sunghoon. In a world of SunSun and Jakehoon is anyone else a Sunjake stan??

u/Gullible-Possible369 — 23 days ago

Enhypen is NOT "flopping"

Im SO sick and tired of people predicting The Sin:Bliss will flop, even if its framed like they are "scared for them". Or worse, hopium videos saying Enhypen is doing bad right now with the member loss.

I posted this as a comment, but i felt like it was worth it to post here too : so here is my quick research to prove they infact are NOT flopping (please feel free to add, or request sources)

  1. 1 Billion Stream mark - Last year Enhypen amassed 1 Billion Streams in 176 Days, breaking their own previous records. This year, Enhypen reached the goal more than a week before on June 12th, 2026 ! Ontop of this Considerig that Desire Unleash was released on June fifth (156th day of 2026) their one billion streams was propelled by a recent comeback. Enhypen hit the goal faster this year, even with a really early comeback & member loss!
  2. Daily Streams (ON SPOTIFY) On spotify alone (they are currently averaging between 4.3-4.5 million streams a day). This is completely comparable to their spotify streaming average of 4.7 Million streams a day in 2025. Also, comparing last years average streams to right now (a time of "drought" where we havent had a comeback in five months, and are expecting one in a month, isnt a good meter to tell that they are not doing well)
  3. Rolling stone article about Enhypens surge in sales, even post Hee departure : article
  4. Tour sales, during presale period and up until about a month ago, Enhypens US tours were getting "scary" looking, seeing as they were not selling as well as they did for WTL, however they have now gotten to a total 82.5% sales for all of North America, which is incredibly good consdiering the economy right now. Also - Dallas (which is the only NA stop they have visted so far) reached near 100% attendance a week before the concert, so as this week and next week's show carry on , if the trends continue San Diego and Tacoma (this weeks stops) will also rise atleast marginally.

It does look "bad" to some people right now, but "ot7's" are just louder, the boys are doing just fine :)

u/Gullible-Possible369 — 1 month ago

i feel bad for the members at this point.

At this point , even after multiple members have spoken up , and Jungwon did the hard thing as the leader and directly addressed inappropriate behavior from both sides, this is just mental illness.

Even after Jungwon addressed how Enhypen is Six NOT Seven , verbatim some people are trying to twist his words.

We know it was a hard time for them making the decision for Heeseung/EVAN to leave. But what matters is that Enhypen chose us and eachother.

also on another note: if JUST because Heeseung left, a light dimmed inside you, and you can no longer go about your days. Ot7 won’t help, therapy probably will. It’s parasocial af

and if you can’t stan enhypen anymore beacuse you thing Jungwon addressed the fact he doesn’t wang his fans disrespecting him.. you have unfortunately, always been parasocial af a heeseung solo stan.

u/Gullible-Possible369 — 1 month ago
▲ 84 r/KpopBGs

give me a group!!

give me a boygroup and i will tell you my bias / the member that sticks out to me the most!!

lets see if we can find something in common + bonus points if you find a pattern in my biases because i feel like there is one :)

u/Gullible-Possible369 — 2 months ago

these heeseung think peices NEED to stop (short and sweet opinion)

recently, I have seen a growing amount of people come onto this sub to voice their opinion on Evan/Heeseung and his departure and carrer.

i understood the first few weeks.. but two months later and its getting really old, for a few reasons

a) Almost all posts find a way to shade Heeseung or Enhypen. Wether its on their talent, company led descions. I have literally seen rants saying that Enhypen should have been six from the start (which is weird akgae behvaior)

b) Its people who try to "translate" the members feelings. usually theyre captioned "my heeseung rant" etc .. but it almost always ends up inclduing a narrative that either they themselves, or a random on the internet made up. "oh jungwon was crying during shout out" "oh jay posted in heeseungs shirt" "oh niki is wearing a beanie" .. theyre grown men who make descions which probably shoudnt be hyper anazlayed.

my opinion (as a long time heeseung ult) : they all seem happy so let them be.

these long rants are genuinley only useful to spread false narratives and misinformation.. Feel however you feel about Enhypen and LHS solo, but posting a seven paragraph peice which contains straight false info and overblown analysis of people you dont know is not good coping!

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u/Gullible-Possible369 — 3 months ago