Hey friends, just trying to find someone to chat with so I can stop sitting here overthinking my life
I like reading and thats about it at the moment. I'm pretty boring but my life isn't at the moment so come distract me please!
How do you handle your ex dating when you are living together? My husband is currently at a bar, surely meeting up with someone. I also saw him going into someone elses apartment earlier. I'm having really hard feelings about it even tho I'm the one insisting on this separation. Like I keep telling myself and my friend, it's different knowing he's going to get with someone else and seeing him actively getting with someone else. I only have a few more days of living together before I can get my own place, but in the meantime, any ways to deal? He's a very controlling person and manipulative. He has been telling me he loves me and he's going to miss me for the last week but then he does all this today so it's like he's playing with my feelings. I don't want to get back with him but we've been together for almost 10 years so thinking about him being with other people is really rough.
Am I wrong for being mad about this? I left because he was sexting this girl that lives in our apartment building. The day I left, I was making plans for a permanent separation. That was like 2 days ago. I came back today to try to make things work with him. We each have issues in the sex dept (he has high needs I have low) which is where I assumed his cheating (sexting is cheating in my eyes) came from. I told him before I came back that if he was still talking to the girl then we were 100% done. He was still talking to the girl. In fact he invited her over 1 hr before I brought our kids to come visit him. She left like 10-15 mins before I got there. He didn't tell me himself that he was still talking to her I found out by going through his phone because he was acting guilty (sleeping with phone in hand and sleeping on couch even with multiple reminders to go to bed). He did end things with her when I mentioned wanting to make things work. Am I wrong for still being mad about this situation and not wanting to work things out anymore?